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I'd go, mostly because I'd always wonder if I didn't. If she doesn't show up, lesson learned but at least you upheld your end of the plan and you can cut bait and continue to fish.
Maybe she thinks since you guys already set up the date, she wouldn't need to hurry to reconfirm? I would give her time to call/text back tomorrow.
Absolutely - she already confirmed. What's with the agree, confirm, confirm confirm nonsense?
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Originally Posted by he's so hott
Ok. But why would she just ignore the calls or text? She's doing the fade and that sucks. Happens alot of these dating sites with women doing the fade on men.
You guys jump to conclusions. She already agreed on the phone - why does she need to continue?!
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She probably changed her mind because you "Badger" her too much. Seriously, no confirmation = no go.
She ALREADY confirmed once! Are ALL of you younguns that insecure? Do you need a daily reconfirm, hourly? Next it'll be, she didn't contact me in the last 5 minutes, so our date is off!
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OK. I'll spell it out for you - a text, e-mail, or any other sort of communication sometimes MAY not reach the recipient.
The voice of reason!
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Seems with these kids these days, calling is a lost art.
I wonder if they text to each other while on an actual date.
Not only is a phone CALL a lost art, they are so insecure they need hourly reconfirmation of something previously agreed to.
OP, assume the worst. She will have dodged the bullet by YOU standing her up because of your incredible insecurities. Who needs a baby to date!
Absolutely - she already confirmed. What's with the agree, confirm, confirm confirm nonsense?
You guys jump to conclusions. She already agreed on the phone - why does she need to continue?!
She ALREADY confirmed once! Are ALL of you younguns that insecure? Do you need a daily reconfirm, hourly? Next it'll be, she didn't contact me in the last 5 minutes, so our date is off!
If I make plans with a friend for a few days out, I always touch base the day of, just to make sure it's still a go, and vice versa. Things can change in 4 days.
That aside, he's contacted her by text and online and has seen her online since and no reply. That looks like a brush-off to me.
If I make plans with a friend for a few days out, I always touch base the day of, just to make sure it's still a go, and vice versa. Things can change in 4 days.
Why would YOU contact them?! I guess because you know they're flakes. I assume a normal person would let me know if something unexpected happens and I don't have time for flakes.
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