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Old 01-17-2012, 09:15 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Why would YOU contact them?! I guess because you know they're flakes. I assume a normal person would let me know if something unexpected happens and I don't have time for flakes.
It's not because they're flakes, it's because everyday life can get in the way of the best-laid plans. Maybe an extreme example, but I had a GF completely forget about dinner plans because she'd spent the afternoon at urgent care clinic with her son. Sh*t happens.
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:20 AM
 
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Why would YOU contact them?! I guess because you know they're flakes. I assume a normal person would let me know if something unexpected happens and I don't have time for flakes.
Exactly. For a date, I rarely confirm if we have already confirmed on phone or email/text about meeting at X time and Y place. If she can't remember, then either I'm not that important or she's very disorganized. Either way, next!
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:30 AM
 
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Hmmm... hate to say, but maybe she changed her mind??
Ouch.
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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It's not because they're flakes, it's because everyday life can get in the way of the best-laid plans. Maybe an extreme example, but I had a GF completely forget about dinner plans because she'd spent the afternoon at urgent care clinic with her son. Sh*t happens.
I usually do this, too: a quick "we still on for tonight?" call or text usually get's a "yep, see you tonight!" response. Though there is the occasional "I've got food poisoning, I'm so sorry!" or other rescheduling.
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Old 01-17-2012, 11:27 AM
 
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i didnt go, she hasnt called.
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Old 01-17-2012, 11:44 AM
 
Location: Pa
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i didnt go, she hasnt called.
I wouldn't worry about it, find another.
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Old 01-17-2012, 12:09 PM
 
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agree move on
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Old 01-17-2012, 12:17 PM
 
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So....why do women do these types of things? the flaking, that is.
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Old 01-17-2012, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Men flake out too, you know.
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Old 01-17-2012, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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So....why do women do these types of things? the flaking, that is.
Because they can.

She probably has a zillion guys messaging her on that site.

If you had a bunch of women messaging you daily, you wouldn't care either.
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