Fourth Date with a girl: Peck on the cheek or??? (dates, boyfriend)
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The lips? Would that be considered too fast? I'm honestly not serious about falling in love and exclusivity. But she did mention once about my pecking on the cheek behaviour. Should I humour her?
Definetely go for the lips so that she knows you are interested in a romantic way and not as friends. Good to see there are guys who don't expect/want to jump right into the promised land in a couple of dates. Have fun in your date!
Hmmm. If you've followed the "third date rule" where you had sex on the third date, then you're now proposing the "peck of death" for this non-relationship? Well, it's better than a text message breakup, I suppose.
I've always preferred to wait until the 3rd date for any kissing on the lips. I don't like to kiss strangers, and it usually takes 3 dates for me to feel comfortable enough for a kiss. And I also think it shows respect on the guy's part. If he's not willing to follow my lead on how fast the relationship moves, then he can move along to someone else.
All that said, this entirely depends on each situation - every guy/date can be quite different. My current boyfriend blew me away on our first actual "date", but we had spent so much time together already it felt exactly right.
I've always preferred to wait until the 3rd date for any kissing on the lips. I don't like to kiss strangers, and it usually takes 3 dates for me to feel comfortable enough for a kiss. And I also think it shows respect on the guy's part. If he's not willing to follow my lead on how fast the relationship moves, then he can move along to someone else.
All that said, this entirely depends on each situation - every guy/date can be quite different. My current boyfriend blew me away on our first actual "date", but we had spent so much time together already it felt exactly right.
Yeah, one doesn't know a person enough to accelerate on date 1 or 2. It also is a tactic of desperation. My conduct has been extremely contained these times. Never gave any woman any sign that I am "truly" interested. Played good sport in all dinner occasions. She likes that in me, some sort of an elitist approach. She already has very high opinions on me, my job etc., why would I ruin that outlook by appearing desperate
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I'm honestly not serious about falling in love and exclusivity. But she did mention once about my pecking on the cheek behaviour. Should I humour her?
