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Old 01-20-2012, 07:36 PM
 
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A woman ever show up at your house during an argument?

Ladies have you ever done it? why do you all try so hard to make up?

Ive been in 2 serious relationships and whenever we have a fight and i start ignoring her, they would find their way to my house. One of them came to my house like midnight. I lived on the second floor of a private house...only to hear stones hitting my window. I was like what the hell. I moved the curtain and there she was in the back yard.

My current girl has showed up about 3 times during the 3 years we've been together. She says she come to "talk". im the type of person who shuts down when im upset. ignore phone calls, email, texts.you name it.

I was at work one time and saw this girl following this guy in the rain. Obviously something happened and he was pissed. She was begging him to come back.....
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Old 01-20-2012, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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It sounds to me like you're being the girl and giving a silent treatment and they are taking the initiative to talk .. Be a man
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Old 01-20-2012, 07:55 PM
 
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It sounds to me like you're being the girl and giving a silent treatment and they are taking the initiative to talk .. Be a man
lol with me, its better when im silent. no girl wants to deal with me when im upset because im sure she would accuse me of verbal abuse. so i pretty much use the time alone to calm down. They never get it however.
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Old 01-20-2012, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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lol with me, its better when im silent. no girl wants to deal with me when im upset because im sure she would accuse me of verbal abuse. so i pretty much use the time alone to calm down. They never get it however.

I had a girlfriend with that type of behavior, it was impossible to ever talk with her because she couldn't control her anger. I dumped her.
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Old 01-20-2012, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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With my last girlfriend, whenever we'd have an argument she'd wait until lunch and then steal my dessert. Even as a preschooler I realized it was an immature thing to do.
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Old 01-20-2012, 08:18 PM
 
Location: USA
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They want to kiss and make up. REALLY make up!
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Old 01-20-2012, 08:21 PM
 
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They want to kiss and make up. REALLY make up!
It's a good reason to fight.

A GOOD reason!
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Old 01-20-2012, 08:23 PM
 
Location: FL
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A woman ever show up at your house during an argument?

Ladies have you ever done it? why do you all try so hard to make up?

Ive been in 2 serious relationships and whenever we have a fight and i start ignoring her, they would find their way to my house. One of them came to my house like midnight. I lived on the second floor of a private house...only to hear stones hitting my window. I was like what the hell. I moved the curtain and there she was in the back yard.

My current girl has showed up about 3 times during the 3 years we've been together. She says she come to "talk". im the type of person who shuts down when im upset. ignore phone calls, email, texts.you name it.

I was at work one time and saw this girl following this guy in the rain. Obviously something happened and he was pissed. She was begging him to come back.....

Read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. I think the chapter is called The Rubber Band Theory (or something like that).
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Old 01-20-2012, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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A woman ever show up at your house during an argument?

Ladies have you ever done it? why do you all try so hard to make up?

Ive been in 2 serious relationships and whenever we have a fight and i start ignoring her, they would find their way to my house. One of them came to my house like midnight. I lived on the second floor of a private house...only to hear stones hitting my window. I was like what the hell. I moved the curtain and there she was in the back yard.

...
That sounds so romantic...!!

[haha]
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Old 01-20-2012, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Massachusetts
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I've never done something like that, but I am the type of person who has to solve the problems on the spot. It drives me nuts when I am with someone who uses the silent treatment. That does not work for me.
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