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People should do whatever they want. IMO it's generally a bad idea if you want a LTR, though.
From a guy's perspective, and I know this may sound sexist, but I really need a bit of a challenge in that regard. I am honestly less attracted to a woman if she indicates sexual availability right from the get-go.
People should do whatever they want. IMO it's generally a bad idea if you want a LTR, though.
From a guy's perspective, and I know this may sound sexist, but I really need a bit of a challenge in that regard. I am honestly less attracted to a woman if she indicates sexual availability right from the get-go.
Guy here,
Completely different perspective than Nola. Me deciding whether or not you are girlfriend material has nothing to do with what date I get to before I sleep with you.
Some of the most promiscuous women are the ones that play the.....hard to get.....10 dates before we have sex ...pretend I'm saving myself......bull crap games.
I will say this....if he is truly interested in something special with you...he will not mind taking his time to get to know you.
If there is pressure there than I would say that 9 times out of 10...he just wants to have sex and nothing more.
Just be yourself and be 100% honest with they guy on how you feel about the issue. Either he respects you or not.
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Completely different perspective than Nola. Me deciding whether or not you are girlfriend material has nothing to do with what date I get to before I sleep with you.
Some of the most promiscuous women are the ones that play the.....hard to get.....10 dates before we have sex ...pretend I'm saving myself......bull crap games.
I will say this....if he is truly interested in something special with you...he will not mind taking his time to get to know you.
If there is pressure there than I would say that 9 times out of 10...he just wants to have sex and nothing more.
Just be yourself and be 100% honest with they guy on how you feel about the issue. Either he respects you or not.
I think this is true. Good girls tend to go fast with guys they really like. Bad girls tend to go slow to make it special. I don't really have a dog in the fight either way, but if I were in the market I'd prefer a good girl who compromised her position on sex a bit for me because she really liked me to a girl who has hooked up with every Tom, Dick and Harry in the bar at least twice who wants to make me wait to artificially increase her value. I could go for a girl with a past in the right set of circumstances, but the minute she tried to play the "make it special" game, I'd be showing her a really special door to walk through and not return.
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Unless it's someone with whom you're had a long-festering mutual attraction and a lot of trust, bad idea.
What if the other person is a head case? What if, if you're a guy, she has a million-dollar body and a two-cent brain? My brother-in-law had one of those encounters about 24 years ago. One hot weekend followed by 19 years of child-support payments. It was hellish on him and screwed up his life. And, even if she's using birth control, that stuff can fail. So even if she's being above board with you, you might be dealing with her for a long time, whether you like her or not.
Yeah, I know there will be some guys on here to whom sex, any sex, is a great idea. These are children in men's bodies, posturing as adults. Like children, all they can think about is scratching their itch. Yet grownups know to think with their big heads before putting their little ones to use.
That's too fast, the feelings probably are not genuine. Average is 3-5 dates. Some wait as long as marriage.
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