Am i crazy to continue? (dating, girlfriend, how to, girl)
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Ive been dating this guy for 6 months. In the beginning everything was amazing, as always. Now all we do is fight. He blames it on me, i blame it on him. He calls me names, tells me to **** off, but i do the same. Not an excuse though right? He hurts my feelings with everything he says to me when were not next to each other. I cant let go, i cry myself to sleep everyday. But i dont know why .... I know im possesive as a girlfriend, but i dont know what to do with myself... Should i just break up with him and be single to get myself together... i dont know what answer im looking for, i cant talk to anyone about this because everyone thinks were so perfect and amazing and that we never fight. But this relationship is killing me.
Should i just break up with him and be single to get myself together...
Yes. Find a good counselor so you can figure out why you're possessive, or why you sabotage relationships, or make bad choices, or whatever the issue is.
Now all we do is fight.
He calls me names
tells me to **** off
i do the same.
He hurts my feelings with everything he says to me when were not next to each other.
i cry myself to sleep everyday.
this relationship is killing me.
yes. Find a good counselor so you can figure out why you're possessive, or why you sabotage relationships, or make bad choices, or whatever the issue is.
What future is there in continuing a relationship that has these troubles? They will never go away without the proper help, and it maybe too late for that. Why waste these years of your life? You need to realize you don't own anyone else and being possessive and controlling just doesn't do anything except damage a relationship. Walk away from this relationship and learn from it. If you do learn where things went wrong, your next relationship can be better.
In my 45 years, no one has ever told me to f*ck off. And I've never told anyone else to do that either.
It's not the way grown folks act, so yes, sounds like you need to figure out why you're doing things the way you do - and how to stop.
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