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Yes. Find a good counselor so you can figure out why you're possessive, or why you sabotage relationships, or make bad choices, or whatever the issue is.
He calls me names, tells me to **** off, but i do the same.
If a boyfriend of mine EVER did that, even ONE time, it would be over. I do not tolerate disrespect from anyone, especially not someone who supposedly cares deeply about me.
A boyfriend (and/or potential future life partner) should be the one person in the world who, more than anyone else, treats you in a manner that shows he cherishes you, he cares about your happiness, is looking out for your best interests, and who makes your life incredibly better than it would be without him. And when you find a man who treats you like that, you will shake your head in disbelief that you ever wondered if you should stay with this current guy.
It sounds like the two of you bring out the worst in each other. In a good relationship, each partner brings out the BEST in each other.
Only 6 months and this is already happening? It usually takes 6 years!
Run as fast as you can before you spend six years with him and you are TRULY terrified of the thought of losing and you are TRULY alone and TRULY devastated and TRULY have to start all over again from zero. Six months is nothing, you will be over him in no time.
If a boyfriend of mine EVER did that, even ONE time, it would be over. I do not tolerate disrespect from anyone, especially not someone who supposedly cares deeply about me.
A boyfriend (and/or potential future life partner) should be the one person in the world who, more than anyone else, treats you in a manner that shows he cherishes you, he cares about your happiness, is looking out for your best interests, and who makes your life incredibly better than it would be without him. And when you find a man who treats you like that, you will shake your head in disbelief that you ever wondered if you should stay with this current guy.
It sounds like the two of you bring out the worst in each other. In a good relationship, each partner brings out the BEST in each other.
Nice post.
They sound young. A "you're a jerk!" "No YOU'RE A JERK!" Kinda relationship.
Sounds like you don't really know what a good, healthy relationship feels and looks like. You ain't got it. You guys aren't compatible. There shouldn't be drama this early and certainly not at this level. You're wasting each other's time. Move on.
Ive been dating this guy for 6 months. In the beginning everything was amazing, as always. Now all we do is fight. He blames it on me, i blame it on him. He calls me names, tells me to **** off, but i do the same. Not an excuse though right? He hurts my feelings with everything he says to me when were not next to each other. I cant let go, i cry myself to sleep everyday. But i dont know why .... I know im possesive as a girlfriend, but i dont know what to do with myself... Should i just break up with him and be single to get myself together... i dont know what answer im looking for, i cant talk to anyone about this because everyone thinks were so perfect and amazing and that we never fight. But this relationship is killing me.
It sounds like both of you are way too immature to even think about being in a relationship let alone actually being in one.
Stay single until you mature enough to be able to handle a relationship and seek counseling in between to deal with your possessive issues.
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