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The guy I'm seeing recently told me that he's going to be transferring to another school in another state for the semester for a few classes, but that he will be back on weekends. He has some family there(his sister w/ health problems as well I learned is in this state). He will be leaving for there next month and there until at least May, but he did say he might stay there after that for another family event in June. I guess his mom is getting re married. Right now he's living w/ his aunt&uncle.
Anyway, we have both been talking a lot about sex and taking it to the next level. Yet he knew he was going to be away a lot and come back on the weekends. So should I put out now and take the risk that that's all he wanted and he got it or should I hold out and wait for when he comes back?
I've heard this story in many different shapes and forms
over the years.... guy going way pressuring girl for sex.
He should not be placing you in that position to hurry
things along.
The guy I'm seeing recently told me that he's going to be transferring to another school in another state for the semester for a few classes, but that he will be back on weekends. He has some family there(his sister w/ health problems as well I learned is in this state). He will be leaving for there next month and there until at least May, but he did say he might stay there after that for another family event in June. I guess his mom is getting re married. Right now he's living w/ his aunt&uncle.
Anyway, we have both been talking a lot about sex and taking it to the next level. Yet he knew he was going to be away a lot and come back on the weekends. So should I put out now and take the risk that that's all he wanted and he got it or should I hold out and wait for when he comes back?
should I put out now and take the risk that that's all he wanted and he got it or should I hold out and wait for when he comes back?
First of all, those who are present when you have sex, are the only ones needed, to advise you about it. And, if you don't know the answer, you probably shouldn't be having sex, in the first place!
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First of all, those who are present when you have sex, are the only ones needed, to advise you about it. And, if you don't know the answer, you probably shouldn't be having sex, in the first place!
Actully, not even that person. It should be solely up to her. Of course he's going to advise her to.....'put out'....if it's to him.
This question reminds me of one of those campy movies where the guy would take a girl to the bomb shelter and tell her this might be the last night on earth.
Anyway, we have both been talking a lot about sex and taking it to the next level. Yet he knew he was going to be away a lot and come back on the weekends. So should I put out now and take the risk that that's all he wanted and he got it or should I hold out and wait for when he comes back?
Wait.
You are uncertain about something that I assume is important to you. If it wasn't important you probably would not have asked. It seems like it is important to him, too, because he is willing to discuss the matter with you as opposed to letting it happen randomly and spontaneously. In other words, both of you are using your brains.
[if he likes you enough he'll wait - I would]
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