I would like to hear some advice people. I am quite confused, here it is I still love my ex-girlfriend called X deeply. I have already broken up with her 8 months ago I tried to move on. We broke up because she found out that , I had a one-night stand with a stranger in club. Upon seeing her dating a new guy after 1 months of break-up I was more determined to forgot her. I meet this new attractive girl called Y whom is a good catch, me being lonely tries to go after her.
As to my mistake of cheating on her, I am a changed guy now because I have not had one night stand or sex for half a year already. Because I only seek sex with love now only.
X,Y and me are all below 30 years old.
So this situation is like this, my ex-girlfriend X is still single(she wasn't officially together with the previous guy) and Y is interested in me but she is not interested in having relationship now, she needs at least 6-12 months of being single first. I mentioned to her that if she doesn't want me I would give up on her, Y told me don't give up on her yet. Y gives me indirect hint as long as I can wait for her and make me move her she would enter relationship. This kind of thinking is odd but is not that odd in the part of region that I live in. I don't live in white country. Y plays a lot of mind-games with me, at times she would show that she is interested in me, at times she refuse my offer of going out together for no good reason. She refused my request to go out on date with her on Valentine Day because doing so means she accepted my request to be in relationship. She doesn't want to look too easy to me it seems.
Now here is the deal, I recently met X and I still can tell my heart could feel the love like I was in the past. For Y, she is a good catch but somehow I have been unable to like Y as much as X. Y's main attraction is that she is a daughter of a billionaire, she is above average in looks but nowhere near as X.
I love X a lot because I can still remember the beautiful sex life that I have with her and I like her smile.
Actually for me marrying for money is kinda odd because my family is already rich. From the part of region that I live in, I would inherit lots of money from my parents and my parents are brought up in a culture that they will preserve majority of their wealth to be passed down to me and my siblings. I am the eldest son thus will get majority share. My parents is worth at least around USD$15 million. There will not be much reasons to see a sudden drop in net-worth in the future because my family has very small percentage of debt. My life goal is to first become a richer businessman than my father is and ultimately become the President of the country that I live in. To become the President, I will need to have massive financial background, thus I believe if I can marry Y I would have direct access to the financial resources of Y's family whom is worth a billion dollar.
My option is
1. Go after X whom I love. But the downside is since break up, she has like 2 new guys. Apparently, there is a risk that she likes and forget a guy quickly. Judging from the speed she move on to the next guy after her break-up with me is an indication. Going back after X might meet some challenges but it can be overcome because she also believe that I am a changed guy now.
2. Go after Y whom I like a little in the hope that if we get together I can fall in love with her. My future will be very bright if I can marry her
Opinions please ?
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