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I wouldn't think badly of him, per se, but I would think, "Oh, I guess this was supposed to be a booty call type of thing," and I wouldn't see our association as a developing relationship or anything. IOW, I probably wouldn't go out with him again. We'd just be on different pages.
But I wouldn't think he was a bad person or anything. Most people like/desire sex.
he shouldn't even be asking that type of thing to a basically a stranger. Hello! I would also wonder why he thought I would be dumb enough to say 'yes.'
I typically don't ask women back unless there is some serious physical attraction. If there is serious attraction on both sides, it depends on the body language.
I can't get to know her enough emotionally on one day...all I know is if she's fun or not.
But if he didnt ask, then you would feel he isnt attracted to you or he would end up in the friend zone forever. In other words, its a no win situation. YOU WANT HIM TO ASK.
But if he didnt ask, then you would feel he isnt attracted to you or he would end up in the friend zone forever. In other words, its a no win situation. YOU WANT HIM TO ASK.
There are plenty of other ways for a guy to show he's attracted without crossing that line. Even if the woman likes the guy, him asking back to his place could come across as pushy.
Say you are on a first date with a guy and you have a good time together. If he asks you to come back to his place after the date and you decline (because it is too soon or some other reason). Would you see him again or would you think badly of him for asking?
That's a tough call, depends on the girl. Some would tag him a player and refuse to go out with him again. Some would cut him a little slack. Since they had such a good time on the first date, they would agree to go out with him again.
Say you are on a first date with a guy and you have a good time together. If he asks you to come back to his place after the date and you decline (because it is too soon or some other reason). Would you see him again or would you think badly of him for asking?
We're missing some information here. Was the purpose of the invitation solely based on the guy thinking there was going to be sex or did he just want to continue getting to know the girl and just sit and talk? Let's not assume anything and put all guys in one bucket and say he was looking for sex on the 1st date. He may just have wanted to be in a more comfortable setting instead of sitting at some bar or coffee shop. As a woman, I would have declined the invitation as well but I certainly wouldn't make it the last date. If he asks again on the 2nd date and I get that creepy feeling then I probably wouldn't persue a 3rd date.
What about if you know the guy, and have hung out with him and other friends in a group before a few times, but not as a date. Would this change the answers as its technically a first date but not as much...
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