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Really? I am surprised to this topic from you. Is she Desi?
Rule # 1 : Never get advice from women!
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Originally Posted by greenpapayas
I had recently come out of a breakup, I was bitter in fact very bitter to begin with but slowly understood that what had happened was for my own best perhaps and learnt to forgive both the other person involved in the relationship as well as myself which I did. So I finally decided to move on and find out what else life had to offer.
Anyway I met this woman online the other day and we instantly had a spark, we kept chatting for a while and finally decided to meet 2 days ago. I met her at a restaurant she liked, ordered some food and spoke about each other for a couple of hours. I was doing the talking for quite a bit as I am usually someone that talks quite a bit, but then I also let her talk and listened for a while about what she had to say. She was very soft spoken and I find that a very feminine and appealing quality, we spoke at length about what we had done with our career, lives, ambitions, expectations and of course just the current happenings and life/society in general.
Anyway we spent like 3 hours together and I am very interested in her. I don't know if she's but the fact that she could have made an excuse and left earlier but still stayed for 3 hours made me feel that she might be interested in me too. I would like to find out how I should proceed from here, I am not asking this not because I don't know what to do but based on my previous negative experience, I thought it was best to get a second opinion and get as many opinions as possible, esp. from the women of CD.
We can't tell enough about you and her to make a judgment on-line because we don't have a "visual" of the body language and because we don't know what you both have in common.
Not to be a jerk, but I've gone on practically full-day first dates (usually showing/being shown around a city) that did NOT result in a second date, even though conversation was constant and we had a lot in common. Maybe that's why I hate Chicago. But that's another story.
Like everyone else says, you will have to ask her out a second time, and if yes, a third time....and so on.
Really? I am surprised to this topic from you. Is she Desi?
Rule # 1 : Never get advice from women!
No she's not desi, she's a White American girl. Anyway I have decided to not call or text her, I don't think it's going to work out and I wouldn't like to be rejected and feel bad about it if she says no to a second date, so I am just giving up on it.
No she's not desi, she's a White American girl. Anyway I have decided to not call or text her, I don't think it's going to work out and I wouldn't like to be rejected and feel bad about it if she says no to a second date, so I am just giving up on it.
Are you looking for a relationship? So what if you get rejected? It is not like you lost anything.
I have got rejected like 500 times in my lifetime literally. I lost count. I enjoy the game and treat rejection like business.
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He's not at this stage yet they have to had sex already at least.
