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Relax! She wants her friends to meet you. Plus it takes some of the pressure off of the two of you. Find out who her best friend is and make sure you find something you have in common with her or just be extra gentlemanly and polite. Chat them all up casually and ask them questions about where they work or go to school or whatever. Be interested in them. Get them to talk about themselves and be a good listener. They'll love you for it. And smile when you talk to them.
I agree with all of the above. But be careful, be charming to her friends, absolutely, but keep your focus on your date.
Maybe you're a hot piece and she wants to show you off? It's quite early to be meeting a bunch of her friends. My last G/F, this is what happened so I wouldn't discount that she might still like you.
Haha, I hardly think I am a hot piece, she said she was kinda tired of dating but then is not completely closed to it either, so it could be that. I don't know, let's see how it goes.
First of all, good for you for pursuing it further, and see? it paid off.
Secondly, don't think so negatively of yourself. She has definitely shown some interests here. Maybe she wants a second opinion from her friends or wants to parade you in front of her friends. Confidence is the key. Don't act like you are constantly expecting the worst from every single of her actions.
Good luck.
Yeah I agree, now I feel a bit more positive about my situation, I realized that I was being my own worst enemy and that I could only get better. I would take things slowly and quite honestly whether this works or not I won't be too disappointed unlike my last relationship, I guess starting with low to no expectations but being open to whatever happens is the way to go. I didn't do it the last time and got burned.
ur thinking way too much about it, hang out with her and her friends and see what happens. If she ignores you then ditch her, if she gives u attention and things seem normal then continue on with her
Yeah I agree, now I feel a bit more positive about my situation, I realized that I was being my own worst enemy and that I could only get better. I would take things slowly and quite honestly whether this works or not I won't be too disappointed unlike my last relationship, I guess starting with low to no expectations but being open to whatever happens is the way to go. I didn't do it the last time and got burned.
Everyone gets rejected at some point. Everyone. Whether in dating, or in college application, or in job hunting.
Rejection really isn't the end of the world.
With that said, I agree with you that expectations should be kept low at the beginning.
Well an update here, I messaged her twice last week i.e., the last Tuesday and then the Wednesday(assuming she might not have received the SMS on Tuesday) and that too in a very casual manner like "how's your day going?", etc etc and have never heard back from her. This after she said we would meet again this week sometime based on her schedule the last Sunday.
I sent her an email on Thursday because she said once that her phone doesn't receive messages sometimes and it happened to us once before so I sent her an email mentioning the same on Thursday, again no response. So I guess she's not interested anymore, I just hoped she might have been courteous about it and said she wasn't interested in meeting again had that been the case.
But oh well!!
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