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That may be where you made your mistake - thinking once she "reciprocated physically" that there was nothing left to chase.
Granted, young women give their bodies away much too easily and casually these days, which does kind of kill that urge to chase you guys have.
But in their minds, they likely still wanted to be pursued and won over emotionally, see? You can't stop at just the physical
Oh, I see what you mean.
You think women should kiss a guy or tell them they like them and then play hard to get.
It seemed to me you were saying that women actually flat out reject or ignore men they like sometimes to play hard to get and expect him to keep trying.
You think women should kiss a guy or tell them they like them and then play hard to get.
It seemed to me you were saying that women actually flat out reject or ignore men they like sometimes to play hard to get and expect him to keep trying.
That seems a little extreme.
Not exactly what I meant.
This is what I am saying...
men like to chase.
Women who give themselves to men too soon physically can kill the desire to chase. In other words, men think the need for chase is over.
And for them, it is.
Women get upset/disappointed when men give up the chase at that point because they still want to be pursued EMOTIONALLY.
For people who want a long term relationship, women need to learn not give in physically too quickly or the guy may stop the pursuit prematurely.
Men need to learn to keep pursuing women emotionally even if she gives in to him physically.
There's two types of women: Those who play games and those who don't.
It isn't too difficult to win over the ones that play games, you just have to play to their emotions, that is their weakness. You need to make them feel feminine. There's many ways to do that via confidence, intelligence, physically....there's ways to do it by making her feel inferior. Play to her emotions and use her insecurities against her. The emotional rollercoaster that you put her through is ultimately what will keep her interest. It's not you as a person and the love, respect, and loyalty you bring, it's her not being able to change you or figure you out.
Personally, I'm done chasing the gamer girls. I just lose respect for them too easily. I don't know if it's their immaturity or their predictability but once I realize a girl is of that "ilk" I no longer care about her in any way. I look for real women, confident and flexible, intelligent and funny. She knows what she wants, and she can appreciate a good man. That's the kind of girl I want, that's the kind of girl I will find.
Any woman that thinks only a real man blindly chases a woman who shows no sign of at least meeting him half way sounds like a future failure as a wife and a nightmare of a divorced wife.
There's two types of women: Those who play games and those who don't.
It isn't too difficult to win over the ones that play games, you just have to play to their emotions, that is their weakness. You need to make them feel feminine. There's many ways to do that via confidence, intelligence, physically....there's ways to do it by making her feel inferior. Play to her emotions and use her insecurities against her. The emotional rollercoaster that you put her through is ultimately what will keep her interest. It's not you as a person and the love, respect, and loyalty you bring, it's her not being able to change you or figure you out.
Personally, I'm done chasing the gamer girls. I look for real women, confident and flexible, intelligent and funny. She knows what she wants, and she can appreciate a good man. That's the kind of girl I want, that's the kind of girl I will find.
im not sure. i think 2 kind--- game players and those who say they are not game players.
my favorite eharmony ad. attractive warm open honest women wanting good man, christian no games non smoker non drinker a must.
then u find those are fake pics and profile and she smokes like a chimney and is in AA.
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Women need to understand the way men are wired if they want to successfully live with one.
Men like to chase.
Generally when something comes to easily to them they lose interest pretty quickly.
I do not like to chase. What makes a person feel so special and privileged that they deserve to be chased? That doesn't sound like she's interested in me at all.
There's two types of women: Those who play games and those who don't.
It isn't too difficult to win over the ones that play games, you just have to play to their emotions, that is their weakness. You need to make them feel feminine. There's many ways to do that via confidence, intelligence, physically....there's ways to do it by making her feel inferior. Play to her emotions and use her insecurities against her. The emotional rollercoaster that you put her through is ultimately what will keep her interest. It's not you as a person and the love, respect, and loyalty you bring, it's her not being able to change you or figure you out.
Personally, I'm done chasing the gamer girls. I just lose respect for them too easily. I don't know if it's their immaturity or their predictability but once I realize a girl is of that "ilk" I no longer care about her in any way. I look for real women, confident and flexible, intelligent and funny. She knows what she wants, and she can appreciate a good man. That's the kind of girl I want, that's the kind of girl I will find.
Any woman that thinks only a real man blindly chases a woman who shows no sign of at least meeting him half way sounds like a future failure as a wife and a nightmare of a divorced wife.
I understand where you are coming from my friend, but make no mistake, even the non gamer girls want to be pursued - made to feel special.
Of course you don't "blindly chase" any woman, but you do need to let her know she's got your undivided attention and work at attracting hers.
If you don't get it, then you move on because you could be dealing with a gamer.
I do not like to chase. What makes a person feel so special and privileged that they deserve to be chase. That doesn't sound like she's interested in me at all.
Yep a good ol flirting will give you a hint. Or a smack on the bottom"good game" says it all. Lmao!
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