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Old 05-03-2012, 06:36 PM
 
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Sorry to have gotten some of you angry with me. I respect a lot of you, and the great advice you all have given me.

It IS on me... 110% my fault.

Tried to get a hold of her today, but haven't heard anything back. Pretty sure I remember her saying she was going to be busy all day with her roommate or something.

My next plan is to call her sometime tomorrow, and tell her that I want to take her to dinner in the city, and go from there.
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Old 05-03-2012, 06:40 PM
 
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My next plan is to call her sometime tomorrow, and tell her that I want to take her to dinner in the city, and go from there.
I love this! Buy her a rose, as a small corsage for dinner, or something. Roses send signals--they do the talking, so you don't have to worry so much. Thanx 4 the update.

P.S. Get back to us with GOOD NEWS, or we'll throw you out of here!
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Old 05-03-2012, 06:47 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Remember... dinner is not about eating it's about romancing her. Look into her eyes, pay attention and some point touch her hand gently.

Touching, smiling, eye contact... then discuss how you feel. Timing is everything.

Also, take her somewhere you can share a desert.
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Old 05-03-2012, 06:58 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Remember... dinner is not about eating it's about romancing her. Look into her eyes, pay attention and some point touch her hand gently.

Touching, smiling, eye contact... then discuss how you feel. Timing is everything.

Also, take her somewhere you can share a desert.

I don't know why you would be trying to touch a woman you barely know unless she gives some kind of sign for that....other wise I would avoid it. And I thought dinner was about eating, hence the term 'dinner.'
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Old 05-03-2012, 07:22 PM
 
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Sorry to have gotten some of you angry with me. I respect a lot of you, and the great advice you all have given me.

It IS on me... 110% my fault.

Tried to get a hold of her today, but haven't heard anything back. Pretty sure I remember her saying she was going to be busy all day with her roommate or something.

My next plan is to call her sometime tomorrow, and tell her that I want to take her to dinner in the city, and go from there.
Not angry. Frustrated.

But that's the spirit. Go get her, Tiger.
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Old 05-03-2012, 07:23 PM
 
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I don't know why you would be trying to touch a woman you barely know unless she gives some kind of sign for that....other wise I would avoid it. And I thought dinner was about eating, hence the term 'dinner.'
It's more than a 1st time encounter and he likes the girl. I'm trying to tell him to make a move.

Dinner with a woman is NOT all about eating. The food and wine just sets the mood.
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Old 05-03-2012, 07:24 PM
 
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I don't know why you would be trying to touch a woman you barely know unless she gives some kind of sign for that....other wise I would avoid it. And I thought dinner was about eating, hence the term 'dinner.'
The OP has been seeing his girl regularly for months, sometimes for all-day outings.
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Old 05-03-2012, 07:50 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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The OP has been seeing his girl regularly for months, sometimes for all-day outings.
if it's been months maybe she's not the right person for him.
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Old 05-03-2012, 07:51 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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It's more than a 1st time encounter and he likes the girl. I'm trying to tell him to make a move.

Dinner with a woman is NOT all about eating. The food and wine just sets the mood.

whatever. dinner is about eating regardless of who you're with. what difference does it make if the person is a man or a woman?
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Old 05-03-2012, 07:54 PM
 
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They're young, he's nervous, she's sent him some good signals, which he failed to read, he may have self-esteem issues. We're trying to give him a boost. If he pulls it off, in 10 years they'll be looking back on this and laughing. Together.
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