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So tomorrow night she and a co-worker are going out tomorrow to celebrate her co-worker's birthday. She wants me to come out.
Do I fess up and tell her what I think? Ah!
You say, "I'm glad you invited me along. This is great. I'm glad to see you again after you went away."
Then at the end of the evening, you casually say, "So, when do you want to get together again?" Or if you have something in mind, like a specific movie or event, you ask her if she'd like to do that. Then when the two of you are alone, you can say something like "I really like being with you. I hope we can still see each other after your move. What are your plans?" And see how she reacts. Take your cue from that. If it goes well, at some point you can take her hand when you two are walking.
There's another thread on here where people are discussing that bursting out with a huge declaration of love might scare a woman. The gradual build-up is better. It sounds like things are going well, actually. Considering that nothing big is really going on. Maybe your luck is turning.
You say, "I'm glad you invited me along. This is great. I'm glad to see you again after you went away."
Then at the end of the evening, you casually say, "So, when do you want to get together again?" Or if you have something in mind, like a specific movie or event, you ask her if she'd like to do that. Then when the two of you are alone, you can say something like "I really like being with you. I hope we can still see each other after your move. What are your plans?" And see how she reacts. Take your cue from that. If it goes well, at some point you can take her hand when you two are walking.
There's another thread on here where people are discussing that bursting out with a huge declaration of love might scare a woman. The gradual build-up is better. It sounds like things are going well, actually. Considering that nothing big is really going on. Maybe your luck is turning.
Good points.
Pretty sure she'd laugh at me if I "confessed my love" or some weird stuff like that to her, just because I've never talked about that around her haha. Don't really know if my luck is turning. Nothing really 'positive' has happened. That could be my part since I haven't really done anything to SHOW her how I'm into her. She IS still moving too..
Pretty sure she'd laugh at me if I "confessed my love" or some weird stuff like that to her, just because I've never talked about that around her haha. Don't really know if my luck is turning. Nothing really 'positive' has happened. That could be my part since I haven't really done anything to SHOW her how I'm into her. She IS still moving too..
But she invited you to a party, that's a sign. And you say nothing "positive" has happened. She's showing you she's into you. Isn't that positive?
"Good night, see ya later." What the hell is WRONG with me. GODDDDDDDDDDDDD...
LOL!! ^_^ Don't worry, you're normal! So text her, and say how much you enjoyed the evening, and ask her when she wants to get together again.
haha! Don't beat yourself up. Normal teen angst. Just keep moving fwd.
Look, the fact that she asked you out means you're luck with women is no longer awful. You've progressed beyond the title of your OP.
The reason the "good night" was so...meh...was that you haven't even held her hand yet, so you couldn't bring yourself to kiss her. It's ok. But did you tell her at some point in the evening you were glad to see her, and you kinda missed her while she was away? If not, text here now.
The best way to attract women is to not give a f&ck.... I don't mean be nasty or mean, but just be casual......
I agree. But I think our poor OP has already had months of casual, and would like to move it along, at least a little. But at least now he knows she's into him (which he didn't know when he started the thread), because she asked him out. So that gives him the green light to take the next step.
You clearly like this girl. So what are you waiting for? Just ask her already. If it works out, you'll be happy. If it doesn't work out, such is life, but at least you tried. The worst you can do is not ask her out and then double guess the next few years what could have happened if you did. So stop worrying and go for it.
"Good night, see ya later." What the hell is WRONG with me. GODDDDDDDDDDDDD...
lol Next time make sure to hit the bar early at the party. Takes the edge off.
Don't fret. It's hard when it's someone you really care about.
I'd say two shots is the magic number for "courage juice". Just enough to take the edge off, not enough to make you stupid.
Man at this point though I'd call her if you have to. Work out your ideas beforehand and just get it done and off your chest. Probably shouldn't drink before doing it via phone though. I don't advocate drinking and dialing.
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