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I didnt start this thread because I am bitter, the opposite is true, I just wanted to share some of the things I have observed.
The conflict of interest is TRUE, i meet a girl my age, she may have a career, be a decent person, no kids, but almost always, the conversation turns to " So, how many kids do you want". LOL
I am thinking, what? Are you ****ing serious? Why not just enjoy the moment? Dating is so lame, even worse when you have people who can't just enjoy life and let things develop.
I went on a date with a girl who was a good catch, spent 200 dollars that night, sure enough, we went to a play, everything is going great, sure enough, during intermission,she starts with the same BS I am talking about " So many kids do yo want", my answer was " Hmm, I am not sure" " But you want kids right?" "Hmmm, sure! LOL
better to get the answer earlier than later, esp. when there is a conflict of interest!
I will speak for my age group(34) but dating nowadays is a conflict of interest
Most guys my age, 34, never married, no kids don't want anything serious, and women our age mostly have a lot of baggage, have kids or those who have never been married are desperate to get married or have kids, HELL NO!
Most guys my age who are married are desperate for sex or for a fling, because they aint getting none, I can only imagine how miserable and stuck I would feel if I was in their position, my conclusion, dating nowadays is a conflict of interest from the get go for most people.my age
What census did you take to make that statement? You're generalizing and assuming. Or maybe that's just the guys in your circle of friends.
Ain't that the damn truth!
My sex life is MUCH better in my 30's than it ever was in my 20's!
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