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Originally Posted by bobman
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Good article. There is a point in there that's very real--many women do not leave because if they leave, they might get killed. And some of them do get killed. A restraining order is just a joke to some of the worst abusers.
Or, just as horribly, the abuser kills their
child in revenge for being thrown out. That has happened a couple of times in my state in the past few years.
Another thing I would add to the "Shame" section is the shame of feeling as though you failed at the marriage. The abused person often feels as if they "should" have been able to fix everything, as if they should have been able to change the abuser and make him happy, as if they should be able to fix the marriage.