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Old 04-02-2012, 11:41 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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And I have this female friend who I hang out with alot :/
Like 3/7 days but I see her more days then that because of school and I sometimes give her rides to work >.>

Anyway she has a BF.
That makes it weird right? She doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it.
I've never attempted to talk about it or question it cus I don't wanna ruin anything

But umm can she really see me as just a friend?
Cus I definitely can't.

I crave her and I suffer not being able to go in for the kill.
She's hot.

No one really knows about this...
Is she cheating?

I've kind of said and "flirted" but I've never done anything considered super inappropriate with a taken girl.

What to do.... I'm not doing anything wrong

Just waiting for the day she drops that fool and I strike.
that's the plan
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Old 04-02-2012, 11:56 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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And I have this female friend who I hang out with alot :/
Like 3/7 days but I see her more days then that because of school and I sometimes give her rides to work >.>

Anyway she has a BF. So, what are your hopes??
That makes it weird right? She doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it. Maybe she doesn't but her BF will definitely get upset.
I've never attempted to talk about it or question it cus I don't wanna ruin anything

But umm can she really see me as just a friend? She is playful...
Cus I definitely can't.

I crave her and I suffer not being able to go in for the kill.
She's hot.

No one really knows about this...
Is she cheating? she has a BF!

I've kind of said and "flirted" but I've never done anything considered super inappropriate with a taken girl.

What to do.... I'm not doing anything wrong yes, you do. You know she has a BF, but you still want her.

Just waiting for the day she drops that fool and I strike.
that's the plan
Why is he a fool?? When she drops him and takes you... that could make you a fool too.
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:06 AM
 
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Yes, but only if one of the two is ugly and/or homosexual.
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:10 AM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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it only works for a little while, but once u findout how much you have in a common and think each other is a bit attractive, its only a matter of time
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:12 AM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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No.
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:12 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Yes, but only if one of the two is ugly and/or homosexual.
Yeah I forgot to mention exclude uglies and gays.

I have many female friends I have no feelings for. But they're ugly.

All the ones that are good looking I have fantasized about.
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:13 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Why is he a fool?? When she drops him and takes you... that could make you a fool too.
No because then I get to smash it.
FOOL.
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:19 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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^^^ Or you get smashed by her boyfriend first...
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:21 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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^^^ Or you get smashed by her boyfriend first...
No. I would smash his face.
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Old 04-03-2012, 01:27 AM
 
Location: Montgomery County, MD
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No a heterosexual boy and girl cannot truly be friends. As the OP mentioned, that is not a true friendship since she has the power over him since he is attracted. Only women will say that men and women can be friends because they either are naive about how they string guys along or know fuly well what they're doing and don't really care about his feelings. Guys for the most part aren't mean enough to string along a girl they aren't interested in but its extremely common for women.
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