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Old 04-03-2012, 08:04 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Ah.....we are all the Incredible Hulk on the Internet.
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:06 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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You're wondering if she's secretly attracted to you. That is something none of us can know.



Yes. I used to be naive about it but not anymore.

You could always just tell her that you can not hang out with her and play buddy anymore because you like her but respect that she has a boyfriend. Tell her that if she ever ends that relationships that you'd love it if she calls you.
That's what I plan on doing once school is over. :/


And you're saying you used to play guys?
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:07 AM
 
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And I have this female friend who I hang out with alot :/
Like 3/7 days but I see her more days then that because of school and I sometimes give her rides to work >.>

Anyway she has a BF.
That makes it weird right? She doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it.
I've never attempted to talk about it or question it cus I don't wanna ruin anything

But umm can she really see me as just a friend?
Cus I definitely can't.

I crave her and I suffer not being able to go in for the kill.
She's hot.

No one really knows about this...
Is she cheating?

I've kind of said and "flirted" but I've never done anything considered super inappropriate with a taken girl.

What to do.... I'm not doing anything wrong

Just waiting for the day she drops that fool and I strike.
that's the plan
Sounds like your problem and not hers. I have many male friends, actually more male friends than female friends and I always have. Females are too fickle, moody and such a bunch of whiny pains in the rear and I seriously don't want to deal with all the childish games they like to play.
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:08 AM
 
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Ah.....we are all the Incredible Hulk on the Internet.
LoL...

And He'll probably turn Green - when she turns him down, for not wanting to be his Girlfriend!!!
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:13 AM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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And I have this female friend who I hang out with alot :/
Like 3/7 days but I see her more days then that because of school and I sometimes give her rides to work >.>

Anyway she has a BF.
That makes it weird right? She doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it.
I've never attempted to talk about it or question it cus I don't wanna ruin anything

But umm can she really see me as just a friend?
Cus I definitely can't.

I crave her and I suffer not being able to go in for the kill.
She's hot.

No one really knows about this...
Is she cheating?

I've kind of said and "flirted" but I've never done anything considered super inappropriate with a taken girl.

What to do.... I'm not doing anything wrong

Just waiting for the day she drops that fool and I strike.
that's the plan
You must enjoy pain. Your plan is flawed, it will never work - she's using you for free rides, she sees you as a "taxi driver without having to pay a fare". .
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:17 AM
 
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only when ur friend zone
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:21 AM
 
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That's what I plan on doing once school is over. :/
Why once school is over? Just curious.


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And you're saying you used to play guys?
No.

Before I learned that there was such a thing as the "friendzone" (from reading about it on the internet) I used to not be aware of what was going on. I'd had a male friend and had no idea that he liked me and we'd just hang out as friends, or so I thought, until he told me that he liked me.
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:30 AM
 
Location: Holland, MI
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Your in the friend zone... your screwed.
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:33 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Why once school is over? Just curious.


No.

Before I learned that there was such a thing as the "friendzone" (from reading about it on the internet) I used to not be aware of what was going on. I'd had a male friend and had no idea that he liked me and we'd just hang out as friends, or so I thought, until he told me that he liked me.
When's schols over so there's no chance of ever seeing her again

And did you give him some
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Old 04-03-2012, 09:04 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Yes you can. As long as you guys aren't super attracted to each other. My first best friend in elementary school was male.

Growing up I always had quite a few male friends. I wasn't a tomboy, but I did like to do active things. I became a big basketball fan in my teens, and I started making even more male friends.

The only male friends that it didn't work out with were the ones where there is some sort of attraction, or if they got in a relationship with a jealous girl.

Although at the moment I don't have as many male friends as I did when I was younger I still have some. And these are people I have never dated, never been interested in, and we do the same stuff I do with my female friends: go to bars, go to restaurants, go to movies, go to basketball games, got to college sports....
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