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Not for nothing, but William J Bennett doesn't look as though he's getting any, could be the reason why he's doing a hit piece on the men and women who are.
I've always found this really interesting... you get a lot of guys complaining that their girlfriends/wives aren't interested in sex....and yet they pass up women who actually like it because they like it 'too much'?
You'd think men would want women who loved having sex. I understand that men don't necessarily want women who will have sex with anyone, but sheesh.
see: Madonna/Wh*re complex
on one hand they claims to not want the 'trashy loud mouths' but on other hand they don't want the virginal princess either b/c she's not giving it up quick enough for them....
I've always found this really interesting... you get a lot of guys complaining that their girlfriends/wives aren't interested in sex....and yet they pass up women who actually like it because they like it 'too much'?
You'd think men would want women who loved having sex. I understand that men don't necessarily want women who will have sex with anyone, but sheesh.
Yikes! See, my S.O. knows that I'm not a casual sex girl. He would tell you that there are times when he has to peel me off of his bod so he can get some sleep.
Just because some women don't engage in random hook-ups or have FWBs doesn't mean that we don't like sex or that we don't like it enough. That's a common misconception. We do, in fact, like sex. Adore it. All over it like white over rice. And at the same time know how to exercise self-control.
No one needs another human body in the room to get off, you know. There are these things called "vibrators," you see ...
Yikes! See, my S.O. knows that I'm not a casual sex girl. He would tell you that there are times when he has to peel me off of his bod so he can get some sleep.
Just because some women don't engage in random hook-ups or have FWBs doesn't mean that we don't like sex or that we don't like it enough. That's a common misconception. We do, in fact, like sex. Adore it. All over it like white over rice. And at the same time know how to exercise self-control.
No one needs another human body in the room to get off, you know. There are these things called "vibrators," you see ...
Oh, I understand that completely. It's just always been interesting to me that many men demand chaste, nearly virginal girls and are then surprised when they aren't as interested in sex as they are.
The best of both worlds would be an inexperienced, but ready to learn nymphomaniac but I doubt those are in huge supply
I thought this paragraph was good and it is absolutely what I have found relating to most women out there.
Back in the old days, there was courtship, there was a whole process and we guys had to work hard for the goods. Nowadays, most women are very aggressive, willing to give it all away so easily.
"It's considered sexism nowadays if you expect a woman to be sexually conservative because, in the minds women, being sexually conservative = being sexually unattractive. This is because Caucasian women (who make up the majority of women living in feminist societies) have become so insecure about their bodies, due to exaggerated feminist standards of beauty perpetuated by the mainstream media and entertainment industries, as well as the knowledge that women of other cultures possess much more universally appealing characteristics, that they cannot tolerate the thought of being unattractive, let alone being rejected sexually. The onus is then put on males to ensure that each and every female, no matter unattractive physically or mentally she is, never has to experience the feeling of being unattractive"
I thought this paragraph was good and it is absolutely what I have found relating to most women out there.
Back in the old days, there was courtship, there was a whole process and we guys had to work hard for the goods. Nowadays, most women are very aggressive, willing to give it all away so easily.
"It's considered sexism nowadays if you expect a woman to be sexually conservative because, in the minds women, being sexually conservative = being sexually unattractive. This is because Caucasian women (who make up the majority of women living in feminist societies) have become so insecure about their bodies, due to exaggerated feminist standards of beauty perpetuated by the mainstream media and entertainment industries, as well as the knowledge that women of other cultures possess much more universally appealing characteristics, that they cannot tolerate the thought of being unattractive, let alone being rejected sexually. The onus is then put on males to ensure that each and every female, no matter unattractive physically or mentally she is, never has to experience the feeling of being unattractive"
So... if we put out, we're whores, but if we wait we're sexually undesireable.
Well, if that isn't a win-win situation, I don't know what is.
I do think this is at least partially true. I also think women are starting to catch up with men in the acceptance of meaningly sex and taking intimacy with another person for granted. Personally, I think we have natural instincts that are supposed to keep us in check and keep intimacy more sacred and emotional, but I think a lot of new-age rhetoric has branded those emotions and feelings that steer us in that direction "immaturity", "insecurity", "narrow-mindedness", etc. and we've as a society sort of trained ourselves to override or work ourselves through those emotions as to not be influenced by them. Sort of intellect over natural feelings.
But then again, I could be totally off my rocker, but this is something I see as possible.
I think we have natural instincts that are supposed to keep us in check and keep intimacy more sacred and emotional, but I think a lot of new-age rhetoric has branded those emotions and feelings that steer us in that direction "immaturity", "insecurity", "narrow-mindedness", etc. and we've as a society sort of trained ourselves to override or work ourselves through those emotions as to not be influenced by them.
Astute observation. And I agree. Scientific studies indicate that the release of hormones during sex cause a woman to "bond" with her partner on an emotional level. We're physiologically wired for this on a primal level.
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