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Dude, I hate to tell you this but if you've really been working to nail this woman since your first post in that first thread, then you ain't gonna get there.
Im pretty hell bent on going after her,guys.Sorry,its a thrill.Can I get some advice on how to go about it?
As a former specialist in dealing with married women (not by choice but rather the hands of fate and destiny often led them towards me) - rather than give you 'advice', I'm just going to let you know how things work.
To start with, there is a 68.5% chance that she is not happy in her marriage: either sexually and/or emotionally. Any potential attraction that she has towards you at this point has nothing to do with you as an individual - but rather you might seem available and convienent at this point in time. Any guy that meets her subjective criteria in terms of phsycial requirments would work and any guy that is currently not taken but finds her attractive would be more than capable of handling what she needs emotionally. Once again, if she returns your advances - that does not mean that you are 'the one' or that you are necessarily any better than any and all of her available options at this point in time.
Be prepared to be used and in either one or all of the following ways. She might resent her husband right now for not paying attention to her as much as he use to, she might be going through a momentary phase where she wants to experience something outside of her marriage sexually while also maintaining her marriage and/or her husband might have cheated on her in the past and she wants to get back at him by also cheating. Note: in the last scenario presented regarding her wantingn to cheat to get back at her husband for previous cheating - she will eventually 'get caught' in order to 01: secure his attention 02: show him that she is also wanted and attractive enough to cheat 03: get a response from him 04: punish him 05 attempt to solidify their marriage through the cheating by making him proove his love for her and wanting to 'work on the relationship' and/or 06 she subconsciously wants to divorce him and will use getting caught having an affair as a way out or way to make him leave and file for divorce. None of those situations necessarily require you specifically to be a part of them and have an affair with her, as any guy that she is attracted to will do.
Understand that although you are physically attracted to her and the new, exciting and forbidden sex might seem exciting at first - that if the reason for her affair sexually was that she was bored in her marriage or her husband was not meeting her emotional needs - she will require you to fulfill those in a way that makes you a lamb being sacrificed at the altar of her warped emotional needs that her husband should be taking care of. You will be required to feed her ego, 'love' her and give her the moments that she is lacking in her marriage, but with the implied yet unstated terms that include her having the option to get out anytime she wants: after all, she is married and you will have to let your own emotional needs go unfulfilled since she will not be able to meet them in anyway, once again because she is married and would be unable to compartmentalize herself well enough to give you what you may actually want and/or need from a woman within the parameters of an intimate relationship.
And realize most importantly that if she is going to cheat on her husband, which at its core: the cheating - involves: lies, manipulation and deception, that she will at some point also cheat on you. Either while having an affair with you while still married or if she leaves her husband and then is with you, the behavior that casued your union together will not just magically change and at that point if she cheats, you will be the guy that is getting cheated on. Fish swim, lions attack and cheaters cheat - that is what they do and they rarely change for the new person that they are with.
Good luck. . . . . And may the force be with you
(And if it does go down - turn things on a whole new level. She is more than likely going to do things sexually with you that she does not or did not do with her husband and the excitement and naughty element involved with cheating is going to bring that side out in her.)
Let it go! You are only getting one side of the story from her anyway. Her husband could be doing everything possible and she is just a needy person. Don't be the other guy. If you choose too, I hope the husband gives you what you deserve. Have a nice day
Im pretty hell bent on going after her,guys.Sorry,its a thrill.Can I get some advice on how to go about it?
Do what you must.
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