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The other week, I came across something on the internet about an ex of mine. Well, we were never technically in a relationship, but we were involved for many years. I cared about him very much, but our situation was difficult so I ended things.
I haven't seen or talked to him in over four years. But I became curious about how he is doing, so I sent him a message asking how things are going in his life.
I'm just genuinely curious to know. I'm not trying to start anything romantic again.
I haven't heard back (and it is very possible he just hasn't read my message yet) but in the time that's passed since I contacted him, I'm wondering if maybe I was out of line at all. It's been so long since we've been a part of each other's lives that maybe he doesn't feel comfortable sharing anything with me. Plus, since I was the one who left him, do I really have a right to pop back up again and stick my head in his business?
That is my question, really - is it out of line to contact someone again, if you were the one who ended things with them?
I will always care about him, true, but we are not compatible at all. I do care about how he is doing. He had been a part of my life for nearly a decade. But, I am not trying to start an ongoing dialogue with him.
I've done the same thing and have had ex's contact me as well. Nothing romantic-strictly platonic. We grow and mature so we're just dropping a line to see how life is going. If I didn't receive a response then I didn't email back and just let it go.
You sound like my ex, who is bothering with texts lately, 10 years after we broke up, telling me how if we had kids they would have been 10 by now...LMAO
You sound like my ex, who is bothering with texts lately, 10 years after we broke up, telling me how if we had kids they would have been 10 by now...LMAO
hit him up and if he doesnt respond, who cares?
Oh now that's just plain creepy lol
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