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So, I guess by this logic, if you use coke or smoke marijuana once, you are a drug addict?
Where does anything I've said imply that? Wow, what post did you read? Did you confuse my post with a different one?
You got me confused. Put down the pipe, and re-read what I posted...I said "addict". Not a casual user. An addict uses daily. Big difference. Learn to comprehend before posting.
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I'm so sick of these stupid studies. I agree with someone who said it's probably a bunch of gay guys who do these kinds of studies. There is no way that this is true. I just don't buy it. If you're a guy and you sleep with a guy "once" in my book your gay. Simple, see how that works. But there is no way on gods green earth that 46% do this. I don't buy it one bit. It's like those "freaky" gay guys who call gaydar on everything that walks. As if they really know. They just "want" most of those people that they call "gaydar" to be gay. I can't stand the b.s. of it all.
It's like many have said. If your straight, you sleep with the opposite sex. There are no one time memberships. I knew this guy who I found out that he slept with this other guy. I called him gay. He said, "my therapist" told me I wasn't. Why does your therapist tell you what you are. I'm like dude, "your gay. I don't care if it was one time or fifty times, straight guys just don't have any need to sleep with other guys. Then he did eventually admit that he is attracted to men..Hello! It's all just completely rediculous. The same goes for women. If you sleep with a women, fool around, whatever your either gay or bi..
Trimac, you seem to really be buying this. You're fighting the cause a "little" too much. Which makes me wonder. Did you "JUST ONCE" do something before with a guy? Therefore, create this serious need to convince the massess that this is all true? Not judging, just wondering. I don't have no problem with gay, bi, whatever. Just keep that sh t to yourself.
There's no slips and falls with this people. If you do things (anything) with the opposite sex than you are either bi-sexual or gay. You don't slip on a banana peel and fall into another guys behind. Like whoops! Then try to pretend it didn't happen. Or rationalize it. I needed the money.
If I need the money that bad, I'd resort to burglary or something (not that I would-but just saying). Those are options that a "straight" guy would use. I don't think damn, I need a hundred bucks, I think I'll blow some creepy old guy in a beat up ford pickup....Just doesn't work like that.
I knew guys who did things in drug addiction with guys for money. You know what I would label them-gay or bi..Sorry folks, that's just the way it is. Addiction or not.
P.S. I'd rep you on page five post number 44 Sierra if I could. But they won't let me. You pretty much summed up how I feel.
And to answer the original question. What straight guy who is "frustrated" with women, decides to be gay? That is just so rediculous! Imagine.
Guy 1) Hey Brad what's up?
Guy 2) Not much man, my girlfriend is constantly nagging me. God I'm so tired of it.
Guy 1) What are you gonna do, dump her?
Guy 2) I thought of that, but instead I think I'm going to suck Jerry off!
Guy 1) Yeah, man I hear ya, frustrations will do that to you. Last week, my girl bought a t.v. we couldn't afford so I decided to "reem" Bob the old man down the street from behind..Frustrations over!!!
Both Guys at once: "Amen brother". As they walk away, they smack each other on the ar se..
See how rediculous this all sounds.
You see things in black and white. I find the 46% figure hard to believe, but my main point was yes, some men who identify as straight do 'fool around with other guys' and it probably happens a lot more than you realise. Whether they are straight, bi-curious, bisexual or closeted gays is something they know alone unless they admit it. And yes I believe a straight guy can have one or two experiences yet still be straight. Believe it or not, circumstances can make people do things they otherwise wouldn't.
I personally have not had a gay experience, but I have two friends who say they have in the past but since then have only been with women. Well as far as I know, and since he's pretty open with me I don't have reason to doubt. Maybe he is still a bit bi-curious, I don't know, but it wouldn't be right to call him gay since he's so obsessed with women (unless it's a cover but I highly doubt it, knowing him).
You see things in black and white. I find the 46% figure hard to believe, but my main point was yes, some men who identify as straight do 'fool around with other guys' and it probably happens a lot more than you realise. Whether they are straight, bi-curious, bisexual or closeted gays is something they know alone unless they admit it. And yes I believe a straight guy can have one or two experiences yet still be straight. Believe it or not, circumstances can make people do things they otherwise wouldn't.
I personally have not had a gay experience, but I have two friends who say they have in the past but since then have only been with women. Well as far as I know, and since he's pretty open with me I don't have reason to doubt. Maybe he is still a bit bi-curious, I don't know, but it wouldn't be right to call him gay since he's so obsessed with women (unless it's a cover but I highly doubt it, knowing him).
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