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Old 04-26-2012, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I am a single 26 year old male who is straight edge (no drugs, no alcohol, no smoking, no sexual promiscuity). I realize that the majority of people drink, do drugs, and participate in other debauchery.
So, I see smoking and drinking are on par with doing drugs, sexual promiscuity, and debauchery! OK, enjoy your straight edge! Oh, and please don't come back to this forum to whine about lack of sex once you get your straight-edged half!
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Old 04-26-2012, 08:50 PM
 
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So, I see smoking and drinking are on par with doing drugs, sexual promiscuity, and debauchery! OK, enjoy your straight edge! Oh, and please don't come back to this forum to whine about lack of sex once you get your straight-edged half!

I will enjoy it...I'll enjoy not being a *****.
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Old 04-26-2012, 10:11 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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As a Computer Scientist and Machine Learning Statistician, I could care less about poetry, literature, or music. .
Now that's a damn shame.
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Old 04-26-2012, 11:30 PM
 
Location: Earth
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I kindly disagree.

People do change. When I was in my early 20s, I partied, club-hopped, drank too much on the weekends and basically wore myself out. I was never into the drug scene, but I more tolerant of guys who went out and got smashed because I was in the same place at that stage of life. Does that mean I'm hypocritical because I don't want a man who gets sh*tfaced on Friday night?

I realize that this is an extreme example, but ... yes, people do change. They learn and grow from their pasts. That's a darned good thing!
But it was okay for him to do it.
That's hypocrisy, double standard, etc.
Do you think that they should all go to jail for breaking the law?

It's just another, I've got mine/I did it but you can't, ********* attitude.
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Old 04-26-2012, 11:34 PM
 
Location: Earth
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I will enjoy it...I'll enjoy not being a *****.
Aha, now we get to the point, women who like sex are whores.
Shoulda just said that from the beginning instead of playing games.
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Old 04-26-2012, 11:38 PM
 
Location: Austin
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But it was okay for him to do it.
That's hypocrisy, double standard, etc.
Do you think that they should all go to jail for breaking the law?
I dunno. I don't think he was saying that. I got the impression that he was saying that it wasn't OK. In retrospect, it wasn't OK for me. If I had a chance for a "do-over" ...

Who's "they?" And go to jail for what? Io non capisco.
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:00 AM
 
Location: Earth
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I dunno. I don't think he was saying that. I got the impression that he was saying that it wasn't OK. In retrospect, it wasn't OK for me. If I had a chance for a "do-over" ...

Who's "they?" And go to jail for what? Io non capisco.
//www.city-data.com/forum/24039402-post46.html
If you did it, it was obviously okay for you at the time.
Same as with him.
He's not talking about preferences, he's judging others.
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:01 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Somehow I doubt that Richard Feynman did. If he did, that would surprise me. The man was way too "on" all of the time.

I am a writer, and yes, I am signed, repped and published. I mingle with everyone from newbies to established mid-listers to NYT best sellers. None of the published authors I know smoke pot or do drugs. The publishing world is high stress, high pressure. You bring your A-game to the table or fall by the wayside.
A lot of them might be type A personalities, who thrive on high stress/high pressure.

I doubt you know what all them are doing when they close the door behind them at nite. I'm not saying they're regular drug users, but I'd bet they have a script bottle or two around.
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:42 AM
 
Location: Austin
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If you did it, it was obviously okay for you at the time.
Same as with him.
He's not talking about preferences, he's judging others.
If I did what? I'm sorry, but I don't understand what you're talking about.
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:44 AM
 
Location: Earth
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If I did what? I'm sorry, but I don't understand what you're talking about.
Drugs; partying
Isn't that what you were talking about in your post?
The one where you referenced mine on the same topic.
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