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Between partners. I think we can all agree that in every relationship there's one partner who wants it a little bit more then the other but what about relationships where there is a huge gap? I've heard many stories of Couples where one partner would practically have to BEG the other to have sex with them. Almost like its a chore, to me if that's the case we really shouldn't be together.
What do you guys think? Have you ever had this type of problem in any of your relationships?
Between partners. I think we can all agree that in every relationship there's one partner who wants it a little bit more then the other but what about relationships where there is a huge gap? I've heard many stories of Couples where one partner would practically have to BEG the other to have sex with them. Almost like its a chore, to me if that's the case we really shouldn't be together.
What do you guys think? Have you ever had this type of problem in any of your relationships?
It becomes a problem from day one.
And frankly, if 2 people have genuinely mismatched libidos--i.e. if the cause of the mismatch is not stress or illness or something else that can will resolve in time--it is usually a deal breaker.
You're right. Two people with that problem don't belong together.
I think the sex drive of a woman at her highest rivals the peak of any man but I believe the difference is men are ALWAYS on high. I also feel most men are extremely low maintenance when it comes to sex, guys are always ready to go no matter the time or place.
I think the sex drive of a woman at her highest rivals the peak of any man but I believe the difference is men are ALWAYS high. I also feel most men are extremely low maintenance when it comes to sex, guys are always ready to go no matter the time or place.
I think real problems can start once the discrepancy is 2:1 or greater. That said, it's a very, very complex issue, because the WHY (or cause) of the difference can be the heart of the problem. Sometimes, though, it's just a basic difference in libido, that nothing will change even if the relationship is perfect.
I see this from decades of experiences, but I suspect most of the posters (so far, anyway) aren't old enough or haven't had enough long-term relationships to know how their own libido can change with time and circumstances, much less that of their partner.
Between partners. I think we can all agree that in every relationship there's one partner who wants it a little bit more then the other but what about relationships where there is a huge gap? I've heard many stories of Couples where one partner would practically have to BEG the other to have sex with them. Almost like its a chore, to me if that's the case we really shouldn't be together.
What do you guys think? Have you ever had this type of problem in any of your relationships?
I had a guy "friend" one time that told me his wife was such a B*tch, that when he would ask her for sex, she would huff n puff and say,"Hurry up and get it over with, if you have too!!"
I had a guy "friend" one time that told me his wife was such a B*tch, that when he would ask her for sex, she would huff n puff and say,"Hurry up and get it over with, if you have too!!"
Haha. I had a friend say, "Omg! Are you done yet?"
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