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I think the majority of the time, men have stronger sex drives.
It's not always the case in relationships because there are men with lower sex drives than there SO. but eventually she will figure that out and decide whether or not it's a big enough reason to end the relationship.
I find this topic a little interesting cause I am in that situation. It is not true that guys can always do it anywhere.
Compared to my girlfriend I have lower libido. We haven't lived together yet, but when we travel together then she wants to do it every night, while I can't.Repeated ejaculation reduces my sex drive. The way to get around it is by not ejaculate every single night. Kind of hold it in.
But I still wonder if this is going to be a problem when we move in together. I really would prefer if my sexual drive is higher than hers, because that is the way it is supposed to be. Also, if I am not too interested it will hurt her confidence. Potentially she may be less interested when we don't travel, and the problem resolves itself.
I have thought about potentially taking some kind of medicine to increase my libido somewhat. But I have to consider the long term effects. Since we don't live together yet, I don't need to think about that right now.
I think the sex drive of a woman at her highest rivals the peak of any man but I believe the difference is men are ALWAYS on high. I also feel most men are extremely low maintenance when it comes to sex, guys are always ready to go no matter the time or place.
It depends on the frequency. Some guys actually complain that they're expected to be ready to go anytime, all the time.
I disagree. The person I was in a relationship with had a lower libido. It wasn't because he was shy and it wasn't because he didn't sexually desire me. He would have been perfectly happy with 3 or 4 times a week. That wasn't enough for me.He had the same problem in all his relationships. It wasn't personal - it was biological. But it was hard for me to deal with that at the time.
Why not? You can't have sex with yourself, so when you don't have a partner you are having sex 0 times a week.
He could use his fingers and tongue the times he is not interested, and you should still enjoy it.
I'm not saying that I was going to die with out it - I'm saying that I wanted to have sex everyday. Sometimes I wanted it several times a day. We are talking about sex drive - we aren't talking about what you can or can't live with out.
At what point do you believe sex drive becomes a problem?
When you leave the house after having sex with you so to pick up some more booze only to return finding you SO being plowed by two men built like horses.
That would be a sure sign there is a problem.
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