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Sure some guys wouldn't have a problem with it whatsoever. Shocking. the 'consensus' seems to be guys do not respect a girl who screws them the first night or the second night. I think a guy already said something similar to this in this thread or another one.
I'm sorry...I don't mean to be rude, but I really don't understand how it's okay for someone to put their mouth on someone's most intimate body part, but sex is some sort of big deal. Personally I find oral sex a lot more personal than sex.
Either she's okay with waiting or she's not. After 2.5 months I think I wouldn't want to wait either. 2.5 months in and not seeing anyone else..that is a relationship to me and sex is an important part of a relationship. Maybe this chick is just confused why you're okay with other stuff, but not with sex?
I'm sorry...I don't mean to be rude, but I really don't understand how it's okay for someone to put their mouth on someone's most intimate body part, but sex is some sort of big deal. Personally I find oral sex a lot more personal than sex.
Either she's okay with waiting or she's not. After 2.5 months I think I wouldn't want to wait either. 2.5 months in and not seeing anyone else..that is a relationship to me and sex is an important part of a relationship. Maybe this chick is just confused why you're okay with other stuff, but not with sex?
She may only be giving him oral sex and he may not be giving it to her, AND the OP may be a virgin.
To me, oral sex and intercourse are on two different levels but that's just me. I believe in holding off on intercourse until I am absolutely sure that I am going to have a committed long term relationship with the person.
I agree with you on oral sex and holding off a little while on sex. You've taken a lot of unnecessary criticism from people here for no reason. Oral sex isn't real sex as far as I'm concerned. A girl can give 500 BJ's and never have intercourse and still be a virgin. 'Nough said.
You're to be respected for waiting on sex. Don't be swayed by the guys here saying, "Hey man, I wouldn't wait!" (I'm sure they're about as sexually active as my 94 year old grandma). Wait as long as you want and don't feel badly about it!
This is new to me. What does it mean to be good enough for 'oral sex' but not intercourse? This means you kinda like the person??
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I agree with you on oral sex and holding off a little while on sex. You've taken a lot of unnecessary criticism from people here for no reason. Oral sex isn't real sex as far as I'm concerned. A girl can give 500 BJ's and never have intercourse and still be a virgin. 'Nough said.
uh who said she would still be a virgin? I happen to think circumstances like this is not that common, and a girl would have had intercourse long before the 500th blowjob
When I'm not in a relationship? Yes. I have a few girls that I can call up for sex.
But the reason I don't go on a lot dates is because I reserve them for girls I think are special. If I just wanted to have sex with a woman I'd never take her on a date, to me that's a waste.
A lot of men I know waste dates on girls that either
A. Are just using them for a free meal and have no real intentions of being with them
B.Gave it up easily to other guys but make them wait or take them out
She may feel bad about herself.... She may have been made to feel she was good enough for oral sex whenever it suited you but that she is not good enough for the rest. She may be feeling like she thought she meant more to you and wished she had not done what she already has.
I think it's good to hold off because you don't take intercourse lightly. Could be that you shouldn't take the whole lot of it lightly....
This is it exactly!!!
She feels cheap and lousy about herself now and you aren't going to get much out of her in the way of physical expression.
She has pretty much put a wall up to protect herself.
When I'm not in a relationship? Yes. I have a few girls that I can call up for sex.
But the reason I don't go on a lot dates is because I reserve them for girls I think are special. If I just wanted to have sex with a woman I'd never take her on a date, to me that's a waste.
A lot of men I know waste dates on girls that either
A. Are just using them for a free meal and have no real intentions of being with them
B.Gave it up easily to other guys but make them wait or take them out
This guy gets it.
I've been the loser who wastes time and money on dates with a girl who gives the good stuff to another dude who isn't doing squat, and I've been the dude who gets the good stuff without doing squat while another loser spends time and money on dates.
I prefer the second scenario.
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