What if Men had a 90-day Rule....on their wallets?? (wife, single)

[*Sixy*]

I've never heard of the 90-day rule.

How about have sex when it feels like the time is right, and forget the rules. I don't see how anyone can put a timeline on it anyway. Some people call and communicate with you daily and see you once a week or more. Others you might only see once a month. Big difference between those two scenarios.

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by justthe6ofus

I've never heard of the 90-day rule.

How about have sex when it feels like the time is right, and forget the rules. I don't see how anyone can put a timeline on it anyway. Some people call and communicate with you daily and see you once a week or more. Others you might only see once a month. Big difference between those two scenarios.

Well to each his own. I personally don't care if someone does it 'when the time feels right,' that's their business. But I wanted to wait for marriage before I found out that was a huge joke to men.

[imcurious]

I also agree it is a sign of good manners and chivalry for a man to pay . . . a pay who won't pay is a cheapskate, and that is a horrible, un-sexy trait for a man to have . . . if you refuse to have good manners, then don't come on a forum and ***** that you have no "luck" with women . . .you really have no style.

[southshorelady]

Originally Posted by The Dissenter

OK, in layman's terms what is your point?

Let me guess. Be generous even if you have to empty your checking acct? No, the only way to get some is to pay every expense for a girl? No, just blow money fast?

What are you talking about? Taking a girl to dinner a few times is somehow tantamount to "paying every expense" ? Most girls I know have more expenses than dinner once a week.

[SummerFall]

First of all OP, I never even heard of the 90 day rule. I kinda got the idea after reading a few posts. Let me say this to you. I have every right to say when, where, and with who I will sleep with. That's the only 'rule' I have. Why some men get pissed JUST because a woman wants to get to know a guy before she lets him shove his c--k in her is beyond me. Actually..no it isnt. Its because all a lot of men think about is getting laid. And you wonder why a woman wants to see if a guy is into HER rather than what's between her legs. I will NOT sleep with a guy until we both get to know more about each other and find out if we are both on the same page as to how we feel about each other. And I dont need his money, I have my own. He doesnt want to buy the movie tickets, who cares. Because in all reality, someone else will.

Why do some of you men seem so offended because some women want to get to know you, and see what you are about before she spreads her legs?? Has sex become THAT worthless? You think because you spend 15 bucks on a woman at Chilli's that she should be spreading for you?? I have a good job. I can buy my own damn meal...clothes, etc. Heck I can buy a sex toy..and I can even buy sperm. Do you want women to get that attitude, and look at you and say they dont need you?? Then, you guys will be complaining that women are too independent. I feel that the sleeping together issue is on a whole different level. If a guy asks me out,for example, why cant he pay? I am more than willing to treat a man, and I have on lots of occassions. Hell, I damn near supported my ex-boyfriend. Dont get me going. Sex is a more powerful and emotional thing between two people than deciding who pays for the pizza, or who buys the movie tickets.

Some men act offended by opening the wallet, yet they consistently go after these high maintenanced women because they are hot or have' big boobs' or something. The prima donnas. The low key women who arent all into a man's wallet get passed over. I see this all the time. You say you hate these gold diggers, but you PICK them a lot. Every chick I know that expects a man to cater to them with his wallet has NO problem getting men. None. Gee..go figure.

You men who are so offended about being made to wait for sex, do you have daughters? So, when you are at home looking at your precious 6 year old daughter with her pig tails, you are okay with her going on a first date with a guy when she is in college and bringing him back to her dorm room and letting him bang her doggie style? That's what you will tell your daughters? "It's okay honey. you dont need to get to know a guy.. and its rude to make him wait. Just let him bend you over the first week you guys are dating, honey. Make daddy proud".

Or would you tell your daughter to not feel pressured, and to get to know a guy, and only do something when she feels ready..and that sex can be a wonderful thing and should not be taken lightly? Dont be a hypocrite. If you think a woman you met only 2 weeks ago and have been on two dates with should be banging you like a porn star, then tell your daughters, your sisters, and even your divorced mama to saddle up and do the same thing.

[*Sixy*]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

Well to each his own. I personally don't care if someone does it 'when the time feels right,' that's their business. But I wanted to wait for marriage before I found out that was a huge joke to men.

Well you aren't saying anything I didn't. Wait until the time is right. I don't why anyone needs a timeline.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

Well to each his own. I personally don't care if someone does it 'when the time feels right,' that's their business. But I wanted to wait for marriage before I found out that was a huge joke to men.

Well, it's kind of a huge joke to many women too, and as a raging atheist, all I can is, "Thank Gawd!"

[Trackwatch]

Since the "dates" are going to be Dutch, then the sex should be too.

Not saying the two are or should be related.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by grneyedmustang

This should be good...

Dude, we're already 5 pages in.

[robertpolyglot]

Originally Posted by southshorelady

Or maybe they post consistently because they are real people with real thoughts and opinions.....unlike others who are attention-seekers....

Notice I said "we" in my post. I was referring to both Doll and I. And since this is a question about men's wallets, I have an opinion.