Need advise what do you think of this guys Ad on a well known dating site.
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For some reason, online dating just hoards together the liars, manipulators, and players. I think there are genuine people online, but they get lost among the flashier types. Usually, if the genuine person doesn't find another genuine person, they just stop trying leaving the liars, manipulators, and players. And, when I mean liars, manipulators, and players, I don't mean the garden variety. I mean the con-men who try to get women to give them thousands of dollars, people who have fake profiles and are doing it to gain some sort of validation, and the people who think that the men/women on the site are desperate enough to take them on.
Well Said. I am not going to continue with online dating and this site gave me a 7 day free trial and it expires monday .
Sounds like a real winner. I guess when someone mentioned they dont date cops, thats what they had in mind. Good Luck next time.
I was reading the one poster's message about not dating cops and had to agree with her, even before I got to the results of the date.
I recognize there are A LOT of great guys who are cops. However, every woman I know who has become romantically involved with a police officer has at some point been stalked or harassed by him or his co-workers. I simply will not take the chance of allowing something like that into my life. Any guy can be a stalker or an abuser, but cops have a much easier time getting away with it. The guy in Lavender's post seems like he would be perfectly capable of going that route.
We all think of sex often enough. However , don't you think a guy should be smooth enough or gentleman enough not to state obvious things?
Exactly. I have never had a guy bring up sex in our email conversations before we've met. At least not one I've responded to. I am very far from a prude, but getting into sex during the initial email phase just conveys desperation. It indicates that I'm going to be harassed to go further than I would normally go, like a kid nagging his mom for ice cream nonstop. Sex is awesome, and I am fairly insatiable. But if you can't take the time to get to know me for a couple of dates, that doesn't bode well. I've never actually had bad sex - mainly because I've taken the time to patiently establish the existence of a certain amount of physical compatibility beforehand. It's not a streak I'm looking to break just so a needy guy can get his rocks off, frankly.
The minute someone professes how honest they are, and goes on about thier super human qualities, don't pass go, period. No one's 100% anything. You were lucky to get away unscaved, sometimes that type can leave a path of destruction.
I see nothing wrong with the ad. It reads just like a man who is nervous what to say in his profile's writing for attraction and acceptance purposes. Serves the guy right, it's being judged right here on C-D.
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