Need advise what do you think of this guys Ad on a well known dating site. (kid, couple)
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I met him last night for drinks. He is very good looking even more so in person but his personality and attitude SUXS! He has a very controlling dominant personality and I am a very independent person. When I meet a guy I talk about positive aspects of myself and life in general. He told me how he is so much more better then American men calling Americans fat and lazy, he is in better shape then men younger then him. How he became a Sargent at the Police department how he is boss of dumb American cops who do a lousy job. Then he started bashing his soon to be x wife. I said to him in your profile you said you were divorced and how honest you are........He claims that they are a week away from getting divorced.....
So what i did was I went to the bathroom and asked a friend to text me in a few mins making believe she is locked out and I have her spare key........ So when my friend texted me I told him Im sorry I Have to leave I Have a emergency.....He said to me no problem there are a lot of desperate ******* at the bar.
Now we know why he is single in the biggest little city in the world.
Sounds like a real winner. I guess when someone mentioned they dont date cops, thats what they had in mind. Good Luck next time.
Wow, you guys are so calculated it makes my head hurt. Picking single words as red flags, trying to psychoanalyze someone based on a paragraph they may or may not have written. Never did online dating, but it seems like a total waste of time. I imagine someone engaging in online dating would like to be careful, but this is way beyond anything raitonal or expected.
pays to be calculated ...... because some of the things he said were not true when me met.
IDK Lavender-Sounds like you did nothing wrong, the guy was just a jerk. You were interested, set up a SAFE first date, then had an out when you knew it was a bad match. Been there, done that. Following your "gut" always seems to be best. What I didn't realize is that regarding online dating, some folks may as well hire out an FBI behavior analyst and profiler to pick apart every online dating profile they see. How sad dating in this day and age has become, and what worse is it doesn't have to be this way
I am not a player and I HATE games, intrigues, manipulations, lies and most of all dramas! I have never used drugs and stay away from people who use them. I am open minded realist. I understand that it is impossible (if you are a real person and not a complete dork) not to have some relationship baggage when you are over 30 and it is fine. The way you deal with it makes all the difference.
He's a player, he plays games, and he is closed-minded.
When people make an issue of things like that in a profile, it usually means they are just the opposite. That's what I saw, at any rate.
Oh, and look! Proof! vvvvv
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Originally Posted by =Lavender=
He told me how he is so much more better then American men calling Americans fat and lazy, he is in better shape then men younger then him. How he became a Sargent at the Police department how he is boss of dumb American cops who do a lousy job. Then he started bashing his soon to be x wife. I said to him in your profile you said you were divorced and how honest you are........He claims that they are a week away from getting divorced.....
So what i did was I went to the bathroom and asked a friend to text me in a few mins making believe she is locked out and I have her spare key........ So when my friend texted me I told him Im sorry I Have to leave I Have a emergency.....He said to me no problem there are a lot of desperate ******* at the bar.
IDK Lavender-Sounds like you did nothing wrong, the guy was just a jerk. You were interested, set up a SAFE first date, then had an out when you knew it was a bad match. Been there, done that. Following your "gut" always seems to be best. What I didn't realize is that regarding online dating, some folks may as well hire out an FBI behavior analyst and profiler to pick apart every online dating profile they see. How sad dating in this day and age has become, and what worse is it doesn't have to be this way
For some reason, online dating just hoards together the liars, manipulators, and players. I think there are genuine people online, but they get lost among the flashier types. Usually, if the genuine person doesn't find another genuine person, they just stop trying leaving the liars, manipulators, and players. And, when I mean liars, manipulators, and players, I don't mean the garden variety. I mean the con-men who try to get women to give them thousands of dollars, people who have fake profiles and are doing it to gain some sort of validation, and the people who think that the men/women on the site are desperate enough to take them on.
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