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Old 06-04-2012, 09:01 AM
 
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i guess the title is self explanatory but here we go lol
basically i met a friend not so long ago that everytime she fights with her BF she goes to a party and cheat on him but sometimes she says she "regret" of doing it afterwards
but the weird part is that they are together for about 7 years and she says she loves him so much and that their relationship is way beyond the boyfriend and girlfriend normal relationship

i'd like to know what are guys thoughts on that situation
sorry for my english
xoxo
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Old 06-04-2012, 09:03 AM
 
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Sounds like they don't have a relationship despite being together and the guy needs to wake up and drop that loser.
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Old 06-04-2012, 09:03 AM
 
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he's an idiot for being with a woman that will share herself at the drop of a hat after an argument.
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Old 06-04-2012, 10:02 AM
 
Location: in Mary Ann and Ginger's hut
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he has low self esteem
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Old 06-04-2012, 11:35 AM
 
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i guess the title is self explanatory but here we go lol
basically i met a friend not so long ago that everytime she fights with her BF she goes to a party and cheat on him but sometimes she says she "regret" of doing it afterwards
but the weird part is that they are together for about 7 years and she says she loves him so much and that their relationship is way beyond the boyfriend and girlfriend normal relationship

i'd like to know what are guys thoughts on that situation
sorry for my english
xoxo
You should stick around when she's fighting with her boyfriend.
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Old 06-04-2012, 12:07 PM
 
Location: NY
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My thoughts as a guy?

That is disgusting. Same response I would give if the guy was cheating like she is.

Honestly, they need to break up, for both their sakes. Sounds like they are playing house in a 7 year relationship, but are not really in love or committed to each other.
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Old 06-04-2012, 12:10 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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they sound full of drama and he probably been cheating on here anyways just like she been cheating on him.
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Old 06-04-2012, 12:20 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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i guess the title is self explanatory but here we go lol
basically i met a friend not so long ago that everytime she fights with her BF she goes to a party and cheat on him but sometimes she says she "regret" of doing it afterwards
but the weird part is that they are together for about 7 years and she says she loves him so much and that their relationship is way beyond the boyfriend and girlfriend normal relationship

i'd like to know what are guys thoughts on that situation
sorry for my english
xoxo
This sounds manipulative. She's doing that partly out of revenge, partly to show him she has other options besides him, so he'd better knuckle under, or she'll easily pick up a new bf. He should dump her and find someone mature and straightforward. Why is he with her, anyway? Don't tell me, it's "looks"? haha--what a sucker! The guy may have some maturing to do, too, but he'd be better off doing it without her.
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Old 06-04-2012, 12:33 PM
 
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She has low self-esteem and needs to be validated by sex. Weird ***** people.
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Old 06-04-2012, 02:16 PM
 
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i guess the title is self explanatory but here we go lol
basically i met a friend not so long ago that everytime she fights with her BF she goes to a party and cheat on him but sometimes she says she "regret" of doing it afterwards
but the weird part is that they are together for about 7 years and she says she loves him so much and that their relationship is way beyond the boyfriend and girlfriend normal relationship

i'd like to know what are guys thoughts on that situation
sorry for my english
xoxo
My question is why the hell does he keep taking her back?
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