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Just curious. How did you ask her for her number? What exactly did she say? No?
I actually told her that she seemed really sweet (I meant that when I said it, she was a sweetheart up till the end) and that I'd like to meet up with her again for a drink or some lunch
I actually told her that she seemed really sweet (I meant that when I said it, she was a sweetheart up till the end) and that I'd like to meet up with her again for a drink or some lunch
She said "No sorry, but thanks"
That sounds like a perfectly reasonable and friendly exchange. So what is the problem? I know you have had serious problems talking to women in the past, and here you are, having a friendly conversation and even being bold to ask for a date. Bravo. I would put this one in the win column.
That sounds like a perfectly reasonable and friendly exchange. So what is the problem? I know you have had serious problems talking to women in the past, and here you are, having a friendly conversation and even being bold to ask for a date. Bravo. I would put this one in the win column.
Well, I go to Downtown Orlando once a week to go out and have a few drinks (usually only a few since downtown is a 19 mile drive from my house) and I try talking to women like they're real people and I dont make a big deal like I used to. I usually get at least one number per weekend when I go out, but thats usually as far as it goes. At first it was a confidence building exercise for myself
But now Im at a point where some of these women I meet, Id actually like to see them again but when I initiate contact I never hear anything
Perhaps because I dont have a local area code for my cell number? I moved back here to Orlando from Vegas and I still have the 702 Vegas area code instead of the Orlando area code 407
The fact that I havent been with a wman (if you know what I mean) in over 4.5 months is getting to me too and even the "Easy" girls aren't feeling me
Some of the women I've met have even said that I'm "cute" which makes me feel better about myself but still, my looks alone obviously arent enough to get women to like me
Met a girl this past Thursday at a local bar, same age as me. She admitted to me she was on a rebound and she and I were talking for awhile and things seemed to be going well until I asked for her number and she flat out rejected me
Is my game THAT sucky when I cant even get a girl who's on a rebound?
newsflash: she's not obligated to give you anything, just because you spoke to each other.
You make an excellent point, Im well aware she's not obligated too
Things to me seemed to be going well up to that point and I actually did want to see her again which why I asked for her number
Maybe when push came to shove she wasn't really ready to even give out her number?
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