As I could see there was a sudden stop after 2nd July and then comes back on 25th august…
I would say I am just keeping myself busy reading such nice posts and would definitely appreciate both men/women on participating on such threads, on provocating/protecting/potentially safeguarding some generalised judgments about how few things are working…
I would say a good debate is really good taken on right grounds. All those matrimonial websites has at least Millions of users (e.g. Shaadi.com) but I have seen female contributors here –
*Sixy" - some posts quite good,
Doll Eyes – quite protective on female thoughts (may be generalised),
Moonsavvy – post
173 is quite right…
Apart from that what men have put here –
calicali01 156 quite right
TVandSportsGuy 159 quite right
calicali01 179 excellent note
xzane 232 is quite excellent note...
But as I said the matrimonial – dating sites have thousands of users bot male & female and compared to that the contributors here as quite less, we would just take that as their personal opinions (that’s what I just guess).
Practically this thread is quite right , and quite debatable as well because I would consider few things here.
(This relates to Men and Women both, who pretends to put exaggerated or say over ambitious details on their profile) The whole world (your life) as a car junk yard, when u go visit (website) that and try to choose/try a car (a partner), you are surely not given an hours of TRIAL for that equipment (that Men/Women), eventually if you like it, you go for it. who knows say by end of a week that car (now u know M/W) would give some problems (un-described as per original profile), how would u get rid of it??? Not so possible because you are tied by some knots (MARRIAGE), instead if you would potentially give some realistic values in the profile, it might have worked.
This exactly describes to my Ex-wife, when we had an argument, she used to tell me “we already spoke that before marriage”.. OH “WTF”, just because we agreed to something doesn’t mean it won’t change in the real world because of the reality in the real world changes… this is just exactly like a “Government”, if they can’t fulfil their promise then change it, but excuse me it changes after some said period…. We ended up in divorce… and to the reality, no one can predict their own life even after choosing a partner, some partners are bloody so convincing you don’t even know it. Otherwise in the real world there would be no recession and the whole world would just keep progressing all the time. – Completely unrealistic.
I would say these female participants did try to prove their points to certain level and all the male participants also tried to prove their points. Me being male and on few matrimonial websites on at least some regular basis I do agree with them that many (not all) female profiles do put unreasonable/unrealistic demands on their profile, one common would be “I would like someone who would make me LAUGH”… excuse me, this is something get natural, if you are good you will surely get a good response back, hopefully laughable, if you chose a good person, but to an extreme to that advert – I would say better chose a bloody JOKER to make you laugh all the time…
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