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Old 06-26-2012, 11:25 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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And a woman can't just have a conversation with a man without finding out

what his five year plan is

what he does for a living

wondering why he is single

If you're having a conversation with a person man or woman (excusing the last one) why wouldn't you ask those things? it's just making conversation; what kind of job someone has, what are their plans, etc. I never asked a man "why are you single," but I certainly have had them make all kind of assumptions about why I am and have been.
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Old 06-26-2012, 11:37 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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And a woman can't just have a conversation with a man without finding out

what his five year plan is

what he does for a living

wondering why he is single
That conversation sounds a lot better than someone being nasty to you.
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Old 06-26-2012, 11:47 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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That conversation sounds a lot better than someone being nasty to you.
Respectfully NASTY is my style when some girl is rude to me
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Old 06-26-2012, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Respectfully NASTY is my style when some girl is rude to me
But you plan to be rude/nasty even if a woman isn't rude to you. Either way, what does being nasty to anyone on a dating site do for you?
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Old 06-26-2012, 11:53 AM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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And a woman can't just have a conversation with a man without finding out

what his five year plan is

what he does for a living

wondering why he is single
Which one of those questions are difficult for you? You have a problem with direct questions, as well as so called "hidden agendas."

Actually you shouldn't have to answer the third question, no mystery there.
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Old 06-26-2012, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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And a woman can't just have a conversation with a man without finding out

what his five year plan is

what he does for a living

wondering why he is single


These are fun things to talk about..... how are these questions bad? It is normal light hearted conversation. Who doesn't have a 5 year plan, who can't talk about what they do for a living? Wondering why they are single, that's just a joke people say... you really need a crash course in social interaction dude. Maybe turn off your computer and spend your time socializing.
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Old 06-26-2012, 12:28 PM
 
Location: Earth
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This has been bothering me all night because she is DAMM HOT. I have decided to block her so I won't have to see her sexy A$$ anymore which will remind me of the irritation of not being able to go with her
Once anyone talks with you, why would they find you attractive?
You come off as very mean spirited and violent.
That would scare me away.
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Old 06-26-2012, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Te be honest, nowadays I'd say the women are more dangerous. Men know their strength and what harm it can cause. Women use mental strength and deception. I've seen a ton of strong men scr*wed over by little witches with a plan and a scorebook. Most men are looking to get laid. That's their downfall. Who KNOWS what some of these women are up to. Some worked out a plan for five years that's foolproof to work. Deception at it's finest and haunting for men to try to sift through the whackos and genuine ones.
Let me get this straight, you're blaming women because men are just looking to get laid?
They have no part in this?

For ford's sake, dating isn't easy for anyone.

Seems like you've got some personal issues with women.
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Old 06-26-2012, 12:35 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Because it's a pointless message. Why does she have to act like an employer and wish me good luck? Just ignore me and move on. Then she had the nerve to say "it's a shame you can't handle rejection" at your age


You see the arrogance that was in her statement? When someone send me a message I;m not interested in I ignore it and delete it
I know why you're single.

Do you think that every message you get off of a website is going to be someone you want to date?

What kind of woman are you looking for anyhow?

You seem to behave like an undercover misogynist.

You need to do some personality work before you even consider finding a date, for any reason.

I can't recall reading a thread of yours that doesn't trail off into woman bashing.

Imagining that women have a "hidden agenda". Were you raised by a pack of wolves? I don't know too many women who would want to be bothered with an insensitive man.
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Old 06-26-2012, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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You come off as very mean spirited and violent.
You forgot paranoid.
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