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Old 06-24-2012, 04:16 PM
 
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Because she is so arrogant that she feels she must wish me good luck because I will be upset at the fact that she is not interested
And... you WERE. Predictably.
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:19 PM
 
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She got the message I sent and I guess made the decision she wasn't interested based on my picture. And that would have been fine but send me a message telling me you are not interested because it's stupid.
I don't know...maybe next time tell them upfront if they are not interested at any point and time to just ignore you. That you would rather they not tell you.

I would think most people would want to know if the other isn't interested, so they aren't wasting their time or wondering what is going on.
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:23 PM
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And... you WERE. Predictably.
I only knew she wasn't interested because the dumb ***** replied back. Do you know how many women I message on a dating site? Enough to forget who I sent a message to so If I never hear anything back and see her face again I know she wasn't interested, no biggie.

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Old 06-24-2012, 04:25 PM
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I don't know...maybe next time tell them upfront if they are not interested at any point and time to just ignore you. That you would rather they not tell you.

I would think most people would want to know if the other isn't interested, so they aren't wasting their time or wondering what is going on.


If you send someone a message on a dating site and they don't respond, they are NOT INTERESTED. There is nothing to wonder about like you applied for a job opening.
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:27 PM
 
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I only knew she wasn't interested because the dumb b*tch replied back.
You are really so toxic, bless your heart.

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Old 06-24-2012, 04:30 PM
 
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If you send someone a message on a dating site and they don't respond, they are NOT INTERESTED. There is nothing to wonder about like you applied for a job opening.
But you just said you talked to her a few times. So you don't want to know if they aren't interested after you talk to them?

Or MAYBE she thinks you are somewhat selective and not sending out e-mails to so many women that you forget who you sent them to
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:35 PM
 
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That's probably what it was which is why I usually respond back with something rude or kinky. I just wish women who are not interested would not reply at all instead of sending me a retarded message like I;m seeing someone or I;m not interested but good luck in your pursuit.

I told one girl..."Who the **** are you to wish me good luck like you are Miss America" LOL They do better by not replying at all
1) she may have begun seeing someone seriously after she started talking to you. I know I once had to back out of a second date with a guy because another dude I'd been seeing had asked if I wanted to be exclusive kind of out of the blue. It all happened very fast.

2) Who the **** are you to be a rude jerk to women who are merely attempting to be gracious and polite? I have been wished luck by quite a few men after things didn't work out, and I appreciated their courtesy in explaining the situation and conveying their good wishes. Maybe this is why you are single?

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Old 06-24-2012, 04:37 PM
 
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She got the message I sent and I guess made the decision she wasn't interested based on my picture. And that would have been fine but send me a message telling me you are not interested because it's stupid.
The overwhelming majority think your response is, well, insane. Don't you think it might be time to take a look at yourself?
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:37 PM
 
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With the flip of a switch you go from an interested party to a jerk that tells her to "F" off... all because she wished you good luck??? WTH

It's an awkward situation to tell someone "thank you but I'm not interested"...maybe she was just trying to be kind about it.

And she was only arrogant in response to you being a jerk to her!
Sounds like mood swings to me. Wonder if it lasts 3 days.
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:39 PM
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But you just said you talked to her a few times. So you don't want to know if they aren't interested after you talk to them?

Or MAYBE she thinks you are somewhat selective and not sending out e-mails to so many women that you forget who you sent them to


I sent her a message talking about how I use shopping for therapy too but I like DVD and Books shopping instead of clothes shopping. That's when she replies back "not interested, good luck and hope you find what you are looking for"

So since she felt the need to let me know she wasn't interested like she was a employer, I sent her a nasty message
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