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Old 06-24-2012, 04:39 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Anyone with a boyfriend shouldn't be on a dating website...join a meetup site. Meetup sites are for making new friends. Dating websites are for finding relationships.

That said...whew OP you sound bitter! I don't reply to people I'm not interested in. If you've gone out on a few dates, then you absolutely owe someone an explanation if you change your mind. I went out with someone for a month and a half, and he just stopped calling...no explanation at all. Ugh. But does one email really merit a no thanks? I don't think so. I'd just be insulted if a guy sent me a no thanks but good luck e-mail. The message is loud and clear just from not replying.
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:53 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Anyone with a boyfriend shouldn't be on a dating website...join a meetup site. Meetup sites are for making new friends. Dating websites are for finding relationships.

That said...whew OP you sound bitter! I don't reply to people I'm not interested in. If you've gone out on a few dates, then you absolutely owe someone an explanation if you change your mind. I went out with someone for a month and a half, and he just stopped calling...no explanation at all. Ugh. But does one email really merit a no thanks? I don't think so. I'd just be insulted if a guy sent me a no thanks but good luck e-mail. The message is loud and clear just from not replying.


Thank You, your post makes me want to fly to denver and take you out on a date-lol So many stupid females on these sites
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:58 PM
 
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Anyone with a boyfriend shouldn't be on a dating website...join a meetup site. Meetup sites are for making new friends. Dating websites are for finding relationships.

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Then it begs the question...if he isn't interested in that type of relationship...WHY did he message her in the first place???

TVSG...stop sending so many freakin' e-mails to these women and READ their profile...then you wouldn't have to go through all this BS.
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Old 06-24-2012, 05:08 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Then it begs the question...if he isn't interested in that type of relationship...WHY did he message her in the first place???

TVSG...stop sending so many freakin' e-mails to these women and READ their profile...then you wouldn't have to go through all this BS.
If I see a pretty face and she is on a dating site i reply thinking she is looking to date. But I;m not sue why this particular girl telling me this is such a problem because i just received a phone number from 2 girls who look better than her.

But it's strange because I compared both and one is clearly more attractive than the other but it's something about the less attractive one that is HOT-lol
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Old 06-24-2012, 05:15 PM
 
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If I see a pretty face and she is on a dating site i reply thinking she is looking to date. But I;m not sue why this particular girl telling me this is such a problem because i just received a phone number from 2 girls who look better than her.

But it's strange because I compared both and one is clearly more attractive than the other but it's something about the less attractive one that is HOT-lol
Lesson learned then. Next time read the profile BEFORE you send off your e-mail. Just because she has a pretty face doesn't mean she is a pretty person, or do you not care about that?
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Old 06-24-2012, 05:22 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Lesson learned then. Next time read the profile BEFORE you send off your e-mail. Just because she has a pretty face doesn't mean she is a pretty person, or do you not care about that?

I start with the face and then the personality
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Old 06-24-2012, 05:24 PM
 
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I start with the face and then the personality
Fine to start with the face, but then read the profile. That will tell you if you should even waste your time contacting the person.
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Old 06-24-2012, 05:26 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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I was reading this woman's profile online and she stated she was currently seeing someone she met from the line and that she is only looking for activity partners and new friends so she can go to things like

Live concerts, dollar strolls, and other live events in the city


So is this her sneaky way of looking for someone else to sleep with besides her boyfriend? She stated her boyfriend works on the weekends and she has a lot of free time because of that.

Hidden Agenda? Why would I want my girlfriend spending time with other men just because I work on the weekends???
Back away from the nice lady!!!!!
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Old 06-24-2012, 08:38 PM
 
Location: earth?
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I can't believe people put so much energy into this silliness.
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Old 06-24-2012, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Solomon damn. Didn't your mama teach you how to treat a lady? And to that other lady who wants to "hang" with a "friend" while her man is busy, is fishy. Why not "hang" with a female?
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