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Old 06-26-2012, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Yes, some women do the same thing and respond in the same way online as you said you experienced. i never was rude to a man on those sites until they were rude to me. But this OP shows how vindictive men are and how they take things when it doesn't go their way. They always feel like they have to cut some woman down or get back at her, or whatever. I notice men troll those sites for the best looking pictures and then those are the women they message. When she responds rudely or whatever they blame her, well maybe stop just looking at the pictures and see how the woman writes up her profile, etc. I looked at the pictures AND what they had written about themselves, the phrases they used etc. It doesn't matter if you're a not so great looking woman, try sending various men messages on there and see how they 'nicely' they respond.

Of course men can be this way, but not all of us are like this. Look at how the other guys react to him and how he acts. They think he's a weirdo lol.

I do look for the girls with the best pictures, but you can bet your butt theres a ton of 10s that I don't message because I don't like what I read. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who still message them though.

On another note, there are women who message me, even when it's 100% apparent they never read my profile. It goes both ways.
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Old 06-26-2012, 01:05 PM
 
Location: Keosauqua, Iowa
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.....and men do this all the time on those dating sites, that's why they ask for the picture up front to see if you're "good enough" for them to talk to. Once they see it, if it's not up to standard, they say the same exact thing. Some of them don't respond back at all.
I'm not saying men are any better in this regard than women, just reporting what I had seen. As I said, it's not something I know much about.

But, if looks are that important to someone, I do think it would be better to insist on seeing a picture up front and cut things off early if the potential date didn't pass muster in the looks department rather than leading someone on through a series of emails first.
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Old 06-26-2012, 02:22 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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These are fun things to talk about..... how are these questions bad? It is normal light hearted conversation. Who doesn't have a 5 year plan, who can't talk about what they do for a living? Wondering why they are single, that's just a joke people say... you really need a crash course in social interaction dude. Maybe turn off your computer and spend your time socializing.
If I haven't seen a woman naked my five year plan is none of her business. That personal information that doesn't need to be shared with a stranger on the internet that you may not even be talking to in 2 months
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Old 06-26-2012, 02:26 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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We'd appreciate it if you'd take the remaining 25% from the dating world.
Please do us a favor.
Do say yes.


Funny, I feel the same thing about your social skills.
Go figure.


If I can find a full-time fetish girl who is cute and has a legal job with nice feet and a sense of humor I just may do that
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Old 06-26-2012, 04:09 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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If I haven't seen a woman naked my five year plan is none of her business. That personal information that doesn't need to be shared with a stranger on the internet that you may not even be talking to in 2 months

What the hell does her taking off her clothes have to do with talking about life and general topics, which others have told you are NORMAL conversational topics??? As if her trading sex equals getting to know you, typical ..... I am pretty socially limited and have some problems with that, etc. but you don't even realize the seriousness of your issues where this is concerned. Shame. Sorry to say, if you're on a pay dating site, at this point you're wasting your money.
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Old 06-26-2012, 04:19 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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What the hell does her taking off her clothes have to do with talking about life and general topics, which others have told you are NORMAL conversational topics??? As if her trading sex equals getting to know you, typical ..... I am pretty socially limited and have some problems with that, etc. but you don't even realize the seriousness of your issues where this is concerned. Shame. Sorry to say, if you're on a pay dating site, at this point you're wasting your money.

Meaning that I would need to be intimate with someone before I share that personal information. I almost need to be in a serious relationship because like I said it's a very personal question and should not be discussed when you first meet someone


And no I'm not on a pay dating site
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Old 06-26-2012, 04:22 PM
 
Location: The Present
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she wants a free ride.

c'mon man, i'm sure you knew that before this thread reached 10 + pages.
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Old 06-26-2012, 04:22 PM
 
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Meaning that I would need to be intimate with someone before I share that personal information. I almost need to be in a serious relationship because like I said it's a very personal question and should not be discussed when you first meet someone


And no I'm not on a pay dating site
How is that working for you?

The irony is, most quality women want to get to know you before the sleep with you.
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Old 06-26-2012, 04:24 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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How is that working for you?

The irony is, most quality women want to get to know you before the sleep with you.

All they need to know is what I do for a living, my five year career plan is none of their damm business
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Old 06-26-2012, 04:31 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Meaning that I would need to be intimate with someone before I share that personal information. I almost need to be in a serious relationship because like I said it's a very personal question and should not be discussed when you first meet someone


And no I'm not on a pay dating site

And again how taking off clothes corresponds with a question like that, is beyond me....I am a very private person and even I don't see asking what someone's plans are as far as their life or whatever as anything more then general conversation, but think about it the way you want. Maybe you don't have a plan or are embarrassed about what it entail who knows. Instead of getting bent out of shape about it, there's easy ways to answer that kind of question without feeling like it's some kind of indictment on your person......But as someone said 10 plus pages and nothing has been accomplished. So good luck with that.
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