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Old 07-30-2012, 08:46 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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LOL! I've never once heard that once and I work with about 25 women in their 40's. Without any exception, they all have the higher sex drives than their husbands and complain bitterly, incessantly and constantly that their hubbies can't keep up with them. I've never known a man over 40 who could possibly keep up with a woman of that age or older. Ever.

In my experience, almost all women over 40 have vastly the higher sex drives than their partners. In fact, I can think of no exceptions.
This is why men perpetuate the myth of women's declining sex drive, or lesser sex drive. Because they can't bring themselves to face the truth.
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Old 07-30-2012, 09:01 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Almost 35 and ticking good.
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Old 07-30-2012, 09:22 PM
 
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So the whole act of having a headache, being depressed, being sad, too tired, etc. is just that, an act. While your typical married man will not look for excuses to not have sex. See the difference? Married women looking for excuses not to have sex, married men looking for excuses to have sex.



Like it has been said before. Men have to jump through hoops to get permission from their wife to have sex while a married woman, not at all. You’re right when you said life is not fair. Well, that is for the men who have sex as a priority.

You betcha I'd rather "have a headache" and play with a toy when he's not around than have sex with a man who let himself go, was disengaged with his children, expected me to do double-time even though I work just as hard as he does, and took me for granted.

If he kept up with his lousy, Cro-Magnon behavior, I'd eventually get rid of him and trade him in for someone a little more appreciative, too. Sorry, not living a sexless life because a man who once took care of himself and treated me as a partner decided to let himself become a schlub and treat me like an indentured servant just because we got married and he feels he shouldn't have to put anymore effort into himself or the relationship. He's not automatically entitled to my body because of a wedding ring.

It's not a matter of jumping through hoops. It's a matter of being the same enthusiastic, loving man he was when he first married. Maintenance, nothing more.

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Old 07-30-2012, 09:34 PM
 
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The cougar phenomenon exists for good reason
It's pure biology: It's a female's last chance to conceive. Might as well go with the male most likely to be able to fertilize the egg with healthy, strong swimmies.
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Old 07-30-2012, 10:05 PM
 
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So in your mind, no matter what a dick the guy is being, the woman should just put out?

Because every woman I know who doesn't want to put out for her husband pretty much has that as a reason.

I think when someone doesn't want to sleep with you, you should probably ask yourself WHY that is. Dollars to donuts that same woman would sleep with another guy who met her needs more right at that moment. It's not that she doesn't want sex. She just doesn't want it with you.
This x 100!!!!
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Old 07-30-2012, 10:13 PM
 
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Most of it has to do with the fact that she is not attracted to that particular man.
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Old 07-30-2012, 10:42 PM
 
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If this were indeed the case, there would be no need for viagra or cialisis, let alone be such huge sellers.

Excuses, excuses.
Viagra is for men over 50-60. It's not targeted for men under that. Plus a lot of times those men have plenty of sex drive, they just can't get it up when it comes time for sex. Though for men under 50, the majority of the time, ED issues are the fault of the man most likely because he masturbated too much (because of high sex drive).
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Old 07-31-2012, 01:44 AM
 
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No. I think what is true is that women, on average, are less obvious about it than men and not as preoccupied.
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Old 07-31-2012, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Texas
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It's pure biology: It's a female's last chance to conceive. Might as well go with the male most likely to be able to fertilize the egg with healthy, strong swimmies.
I've suggested this to older women who were interested in that kind of thing as the reason why they feel such a high sex drive. I think it plays a huge role at the subconscious level. I rather enjoy being the beneficiary of such desires, even if there is no lasting relationship to be had with a woman 15-20 years older than I am.
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Old 07-31-2012, 07:50 AM
 
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Default On average do women have less of a sex drive than men

Not that i'm aware.. certainly not in my house anyway.
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