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Old 07-13-2012, 08:18 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth View Post
Who cares? This culture puts WAY too much emphasis on "sexy". Cute is good. Count your blessings. Cute means good-looking.
That's true, cute suits my personality better anyway! I'm attracted to cute, girl next door types anyway, moreso than the flashy, try too hard to be sexy types. Although I talk about being turned on by dominance, I think I'm really still into fairly traditional, 'feminine' women, not so much submissive doormats, but regular girls. I have a wide variety of preferences though...do cute girls tend to be attracted to cute guys?
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Old 07-13-2012, 08:19 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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That's true, cute suits my personality better anyway! I'm attracted to cute, girl next door types anyway, moreso than the flashy, try too hard to be sexy types. Although I talk about being turned on by dominance, I think I'm really still into fairly traditional, 'feminine' women, not so much submissive doormats, but regular girls. I have a wide variety of preferences though...do cute girls tend to be attracted to cute guys?
Yes, indeed.
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Old 07-13-2012, 08:31 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Yes, indeed.
Yes it seems those are the types that are more into me...although it's rare that a girl expresses attraction to me, if she did I might be oblivious to it, but I tend to be drawn more to those types.
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Old 07-13-2012, 09:07 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Who cares? This culture puts WAY too much emphasis on "sexy". Cute is good. Count your blessings. Cute means good-looking.

I agree. they make such a big deal out of this crap.
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Old 07-13-2012, 09:30 PM
 
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It's not my cup of tea either but "Judge lest not the be judged" comes to mind.

At 39 I had a young women on a dating site, 22 or 23 if I remember, PM me and ask if I would lower my age limit. I laughed and wrote her "what the hell would you want to date up that far for?". She responded matter of factly that she was tired of dating guys her age. She said she knew what she was looking for and she wasn't likely to find it in her current dating pool. I laughed it off, but maybe she had her act more together then I gave her credit for
As long as you both are adults, I feel that you should at least give it a chance. If you find out it's not for you, then it's not for you, but you won't know for sure until you try.
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Old 07-14-2012, 09:02 AM
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Location: MA/NH
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I bought it after hearing all the rage, I've had it for over 2 months and can't get past chapter 8 of the first book. Boring, it sounds like inexperienced teens trying to find their way around. The author goes into extreme overkill with details, yet describes the female genitalia as "down there" ... why? I don't understand why she would desribe it like that. I don't care for the way the book is written, it doesn't flow.
The books were written by a woman for other women... not for male readership.
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Old 07-15-2012, 02:18 PM
 
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i just got through reading the book 50 shades of grey, for those that don't know, the girl and guy of the book are 21 and 27 respectively. I am 34, however, I do not look like it at all. Some call it a blessing, I call it a curse. Just yesterday, I got hit on by...a 17 year old. Granted she was cute but if she knew my age, she would have went running for the hills. I recently tried to do online dating and I met a girl that was 21. She told me that age did not matter(I didn't want to tell her my age) When I finally told her, she quit talking to me. Well anyway the reason I mention the book is because the guy and the girl get married and I think is this even a realistic scenario?

I have met several girls from 21-24 and they seemed very immature and as soon as they hear that I am 34 it is like they run for the hills, I mean it's not my fault that I look the way I do. Am I too old? Is 34 too much? I look like I am 23-26. I really want to get married before I turn 40, but as of right now it doesn't seem like a realistic scenario...what do I do? I feel like I will never find my Anastasia Steele....
Wait...how does 50 Shades factor in to this?

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I was at a festival last weekend, and a 17 or 18 year old was flirting with me pretty hard, and i couldnt shake her off. Im 36 years old. Another 18 year old girl, completely wasted asked me for a cigarette, i told her she shouldnt smoke, so she asked me to make out with her and was really dissapointed when i told her to sober up and look for a boy her age. wth is it with this jailbait being so aggressive?
This is their culture. Look at what's on TV, what's happening in the news. MTV has high school themed shows that depict young people engaging in behaviors I never dreamed of as a teen (multiple sex partners, multiple drugs, overall apathy to their well being) . Even on Disney and Nick you see it to a lesser degree. Sad.
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Old 07-15-2012, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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How about finding a woman who is 30 who looks 23?
It's very hard to find a 30yo woman who looks 23, unless you live in/are vacationing in L.A. or Miami or similar cities.
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Old 07-15-2012, 04:07 PM
 
Location: FL
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It's very hard to find a 30yo woman who looks 23, unless you live in/are vacationing in L.A. or Miami or similar cities.
Has nothing to do with the city but all about the genes.
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Old 07-15-2012, 04:54 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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Has nothing to do with the city but all about the genes.
...or how much makeup they wear, how much they work out, how much plastic surgery they've gotten or the quality of the food they consume.
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