Women, what does it mean to you to 'feel sexy'? (single, clothes)
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I was going to ask the question 'what makes you feel sexy?' but I saw some google results, and it wasn't quite what I was trying to get at.
Now it seems that 'feeling sexy' is important to a woman in the whole attraction game, to a larger extent than men. Whether this is cultural or conditioned is not the point, the point is that many women feel the need to feel 'sexy', 'desired' and 'wanted.'
The blogger in the link lists a wide variety of things, so it makes me wonder how narrowly we define 'sexy.'
What does it MEAN to you, personally, to FEEL sexy? And I suppose while we're at it what gives you that feeling? And in the same breath, how do you define 'sex appeal' in the context of yourself?
Is it...merely wearing revealing clothing? Feeling like a sexual being? Feeling wanted/desired? Feeling powerful, accomplished? Feeling vibrant, alive?
There's no right or wrong answer of course.
I don't as often hear men talk about feeling sexy but if there are any guys who want to pitch in it'd be interesting to hear what they have to say too.
It seems for the modern women 'feeling sexy' is a high priority. It'd be interesting for y'all to help enlighten us, to see what we can do/just out of curiosity...
Feeling sexy has no look for me. It is a feeling, and it comes to me when he looks at me that certain way.... It has nothing to do with clothes.... It comes from within...
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Feeling sexy has no look for me. It is a feeling, and it comes to me when he looks at me that certain way.... It has nothing to do with clothes.... It comes from within...
That is true. Sexy is too often equated with clothes or rather lack of clothing.
To me a stripper who looks miserable is actually LESS sexy than a woman in a power suit who is sexually confident.
Women shouldn't feel sexy on their own. If they are, their man will tell them. If they are single, other men will tell them. I do and they know I mean it. Some that think they are won't ever hear me or anyone else ever say it. I bet that hurts! LOL
I feel sexy when I go out and feel confident. It has nothing to do with what I'm wearing and even what I look like, but sometimes I go out and I just feel so good about everything. It also has nothing to do with men, or getting attention. Sexy comes from within.
I feel sexy when I go out and feel confident. It has nothing to do with what I'm wearing and even what I look like, but sometimes I go out and I just feel so good about everything. It also has nothing to do with men, or getting attention. Sexy comes from within.
Yeah, but to "some men" seeing you all sweaty and greasy might work!
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