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Old 07-14-2012, 05:19 PM
 
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I usually don't like to get dating advice from women (multiple women told me when I was young to send flowers, be nice and always respect a girl if you want a date).

Men just follow these rules and you'll have great success in dating. Here is the link

10 Hard & Fast Dating Rules For Guys - AskMen
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Old 07-14-2012, 05:26 PM
 
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These are the actual rules and there are just four of them:

1) Be physically attractive
2) Have money
3) Have "swagger" (god I hate that term)
4) Be a bit of an arsehole
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Old 07-14-2012, 05:37 PM
 
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Common sense stuff except for the fact that #5 basically instructs you to play games. Which is what most guys say is the exact thing they don't want from women.

A guy shows up at my door unexpectedly and they're not my exclusive boyfriend? They're gonna get the door slammed in their face. That's stalker ****.

Women may not like predictable but they do like RELIABLE. Breaking dates and blowing hot and cold isn't going to do it for us. Just makes us think you're a flake. Sorry. One guy was like that with me, and rather than drawing me in, it simply rendered me bored and indifferent. I'll take a predictable guy over a douchebag any day.

And #7 seems to imply that women should just let a guy push them for sex. Sorry, but no. I have a very high sex drive so I have no problem dealing with "male sexuality," but I want to KNOW who it is I'm gonna be shtupping. Last relationship I was in the guy assumed we would have sex on the first date. Damn straight he was apologizing for that. Go ahead and ask for sex, but once you start pushing comfort zones on a date in the early stages, you're gonna be on your way out the door.

But the other stuff is just basic knowledge. No big revelations.
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Old 07-14-2012, 07:43 PM
 
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Quite the 180:


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Old 07-14-2012, 07:45 PM
 
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Oh boy....
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Old 07-14-2012, 07:48 PM
 
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Oh boy....
You stole that from Quantum Leap?
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Old 07-14-2012, 07:49 PM
 
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I assume she must have finally called him back and he got a 2nd, 3rd and 4th shag?
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Old 07-14-2012, 08:03 PM
 
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#4 Why did you choose a douche like that to date, anyway? If she mistreats you, don't call her on it, walk. It's a red flag.
#5 Don't play games. Grow up. Ditto # 8.

She didn't call him back. He got nothing. She gave him an excuse, so he figured he hadn't made her happy, and probably she was already taken, anyway.
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Old 07-14-2012, 11:36 PM
 
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Oh boy....
"they expect men to tolerate anything they dish out just by dangling the promise of sex in front of them. So they feel perfectly free to be bitchy, moody, inconsistent, and rude."

Yes, oh boy!
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Old 07-14-2012, 11:42 PM
 
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"they expect men to tolerate anything they dish out just by dangling the promise of sex in front of them. So they feel perfectly free to be bitchy, moody, inconsistent, and rude."

Yes, oh boy!
You shouldn't have to do anything but be yourself. If that's not good enough f$$$ it...and f$$$ them!!
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