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Old 07-19-2012, 04:45 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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I'm confused.
"different location", "distant relationship", "facebook"..............................

Have you guys ever actually met each other ?

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Hi,

I am working in an IT firm. There is a guy in my team. he is located at a different location. We started chatting due to work. Later became good friends. He then added me in facebook. and then started flirting with me...even i like him..so i went ahead...things were going like this...then we started talking on phone....he is 3 years younger than me...but this never seemed to bother him...
he then told me that he likes me and has started developing some deep feelings for me....
later on even i told him that i feel for him...it was like agreed upon that we were in a distant relationship.
everything was going fine....one day he told me that his ex gf is back in his town and wants to meet him nd all...he said he is confused...i told him if wants to go ahead and be with her..he can..i dont have any issues...we broke up....
but he still tells me that he likes me nd all...he is just confused..he doesnt wanna brk up./...
sometimes he shows that he just wants me and sometimes he doesnt even pick up my calls and behaves as if he doesnt care..
m so confused...i dont understand his behavior..can anyone help me?

Thanks.
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Old 07-19-2012, 04:46 AM
 
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Have you two actually met?
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Old 07-19-2012, 04:51 AM
 
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Hi,
I am working in an IT firm. There is a guy in my team. he is located at a different location. We started chatting due to work. Later became good friends. He then added me in facebook. and then started flirting with me...even i like him..so i went ahead...things were going like this...then we started talking on phone....he is 3 years younger than me...but this never seemed to bother him...
he then told me that he likes me and has started developing some deep feelings for me....
later on even i told him that i feel for him...it was like agreed upon that we were in a distant relationship.
everything was going fine....one day he told me that his ex gf is back in his town and wants to meet him nd all...he said he is confused...i told him if wants to go ahead and be with her..he can..i dont have any issues...we broke up....
but he still tells me that he likes me nd all...he is just confused..he doesnt wanna brk up./...
sometimes he shows that he just wants me and sometimes he doesnt even pick up my calls and behaves as if he doesnt care..
m so confused...i dont understand his behavior..can anyone help me?
Thanks.
I have been "around the loop" for a long time and any guy who confuses you and is on and off with how he feels about you has someone else "on the hook" as well as you. You don't need to be in a relationship that confuses you. Hell, as women we can get confused on our own without having a guy help the process along. NOPE..time to tell him that you want someone in your life who knows what they want and also tell him that you think he needs to go back to his girlfriend to see if that is what he wants. Make it clear that you intend to keep on dating and that he is all done twisting your head up AND...to have a nice life...buh bye. Good luck with this!
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Old 07-19-2012, 05:15 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Whats on this guy's mind?


Food, sex, motor vehicles, beer or sports.
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Old 07-19-2012, 05:59 AM
 
Location: DFW
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Whats on this guy's mind?


Food, sex, motor vehicles, beer or sports.
Dave you beat me to it.

Many times it you can narrow it down to..... Food - Sex - Repeat as needed.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Make the choice for him and drop him like its hot.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:27 AM
 
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hey guys....he told me yesterday that he loves me....m not sure what to do....he even got angry on me coz i didnt reply to him when he said he loves me.....m so sorry to bug u all with my thoughts all the time
but i cant share it with any of my frnds now as they just hate him...
he loves u but never met with u? If he loved u he wouldnt see his ex.. Simple enough... move on and date a guy that actually meets u
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:30 AM
 
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I'm confused.
"different location", "distant relationship", "facebook"..............................

Have you guys ever actually met each other ?
My question, too.

If not, then this is way too much trouble for long distance. Even a good relationship is hard to maintain with distance.
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