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Old 07-21-2012, 09:00 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Am I ugly or am I too good looking and seem kind of un-approachable..

I have no problems talking to the opposite-sex for the most part, but beyond that nothing happens, like am I supposed to do or say something?

And I always have to initiate the conversation, so you could understand how hard it is for me to have a conversation with a person that I'm interested in..

And at times, girls look at me, then I look back and they look away.. They never smile or anything, so obviously a dead end there..

I just think that it's stupid to talk to some random person you just saw walking past you etc, I'd feel very stupid doing that, so there's always this psychological problem I have that I'm alwalys doing something wrong and I just think too much..

Btw I'm 20yrs old and never had any girlfriends, relations etc etc

Photo of me; though I look darker then usual for some reason..

http://i151.photobucket.com/albums/s...3/08097531.jpg

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Old 07-21-2012, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Am I ugly...
Post a profile picture and we'll tell you!
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:14 AM
 
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well how can we tell if you are if there's no pic to judge it from? are u a troll dude? by the way when u look at them do u smile? coz if u look like this what do expect? if u look back try this or then say = how u doin?
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:15 AM
 
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well how can we tell if you are if there's no pic to judge it from? are u a troll dude?
I'll post photo soon..
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:15 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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In all seriousness I don't think it's that you are ugly. I say that having no clue what you look like, and that does not matter. No matter what a guy or gal looks like, there is someone out there who will find him/her attractive.

From the way you described your interaction with girls, it may be that you are just not taking a conversation to the next level. I would guess that a few girls you've spoken with have waited for you to transition from casual conversation to, "So, would you like to hang out sometime...?" So what if you don't know her. Everyone who is in a happy marriage was at one point a complete stranger to their spouse. You have to start somewhere, right?

I hope this helps more so than my previous post.
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:24 AM
 
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In all seriousness I don't think it's that you are ugly. I say that having no clue what you look like, and that does not matter. No matter what a guy or gal looks like, there is someone out there who will find him/her attractive.

From the way you described your interaction with girls, it may be that you are just not taking a conversation to the next level. I would guess that a few girls you've spoken with have waited for you to transition from casual conversation to, "So, would you like to hang out sometime...?" So what if you don't know her. Everyone who is in a happy marriage was at one point a complete stranger to their spouse. You have to start somewhere, right?

I hope this helps more so than my previous post.
yeah it's not that easy for me..

The thing is, if some random person came talking to me, I'd freak out, seriously..
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:25 AM
 
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Besides there's photo ^
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:31 AM
 
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I'm homely and it helped me score when I was younger. I think women felt sorry for me.

So I don't think it's your looks.
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:32 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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yeah it's not that easy for me..

The thing is, if some random person came talking to me, I'd freak out, seriously..
I understand. But honestly, you have to get over that nervousness, fear, (whatever the case may be) and be willing to take the first step.
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:36 AM
 
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Girls don't approach guys( unless they're famous) so that's why u might be disappointed
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