Why don't girls talk to me?.. Am I ugly? (attractive, looking, different)
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I just saw your photo, OP. Are you in college? It looks like you're living in a child's room.
I have to agree. That little bunny sign over your shoulder...at the very least upgrade to a Justin Bieber poster!
Seriously, there is nothing wrong with the way you look, physically. (That's as far as I'm going to go, so take it for what it's worth.) This leads me to believe that my initial belief is probably spot on. You need to find a way to move a conversation from "casual" to "intimate." There is no doubt in my mind that somewhere out there is a perfectly cute girl coming away from a conversation with you thinking, "What's up with this guy?" She was waiting for you to ask her and you never did. I can see her now texting her friends, wondering if there was something wrong with her that you did not ask her out. Or maybe she posted a thread here on CD.
No use fretting about it now, though. Just try asking a girl to join you for a coffee/movie/dinner/walk through the park/paintball excursion/bike ride/etc... There are a lot of great ideas that people have thrown out there. Don't let yourself be boxed in. More importantly, don't let yourself be defeated by a fear of failure.
I think you look good and so does your clothes. The key to getting a girl is confidence. If you have that along with your looks and intelligence you should be fine. You are only 20. I know most people in this country loose the virginity at 15 but dont let that discurage you.
I just saw your photo, OP. Are you in college? It looks like you're living in a child's room. Your room needs a make-over. I can't help but wonder if some of that childlike environment has somehow rubbed off on your demeanor, just a guess.
What would happen if you grew your hair and got a completely different look? Is that how your parents had your hair cut when you were a kid? I'm guessing you need to find your own look, your own vibe, and get involved in activities that interest you. Find a cause or a study topic that you can get excited about. We just had a thread by a woman a couple years older than you who was asking the same thing. At this age, a lot of people are just coming out of their shell and spreading their wings. And it's not unusual, btw, for them not to be able to get dates, that goes for women as well as men.
P.S. See 2 threads: "MEN, here are some helpful tips to meet women", and near bottom of the listings, "I feel like I don't have anything to offer". Lots of good info in both.
Yeah that's actually my room lol.. But I don't see how my room holds relevance..
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