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Old 07-21-2012, 10:34 PM
 
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What was the outcome and would you do it again?

Men how do you really feel about this?
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:37 PM
 
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I'm a man, but I have no problem. If I find her attractive, her asking me out isn't going to change my mind.
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:41 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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several times and would not do it again. obviously they only want to be asked out by women they consider attractive, if you're a woman and not very attractive there's no point in even bothering with this.
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:43 PM
 
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several times and would not do it again. obviously they only want to be asked out by women they consider attractive, if you're a woman and not very attractive there's no point in even bothering with this.

Well yeah, that's kinda the point. Just like women want to be asked out by guys they find attractive.
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:45 PM
 
Location: Gone
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Yes. We dated some time.
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:46 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Well yeah, that's kinda the point. Just like women want to be asked out by guys they find attractive.

i know that's the point. just saying women shouldn't bother if they aren't attractive, the guy isn't going to be any 'nicer' about it simply because they're being asked.

it's okay for men to approach women regardless of their looks but it's not okay for women to do the same.
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:50 PM
 
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i know that's the point. just saying women shouldn't bother if they aren't attractive, the guy isn't going to be any 'nicer' about it simply because they're being asked.

it's okay for men to approach women regardless of their looks but it's not okay for women to do the same.

But those same women aren't exactly going to have guys lining up to date them, so they're not doing themselves any favors by waiting around. And ugly men are only going to have success if they're famous, popular, or rich. That's the only advantage an ugly guy has over an ugly woman.
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:50 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Yes.
I won't do it anymore because I've been told it's a huge turn-off because men like 'the chase'.
I used to ask men out all the time and I've only had 2 dates come of it, both didn't go past the first date.
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:51 PM
 
Location: North NJ by way of Brooklyn, NY
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Yes, twice.

Both times resulted in a relationship, including the one I'm in now.
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Old 07-21-2012, 10:55 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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But those same women aren't exactly going to have guys lining up to date them, so they're not doing themselves any favors by waiting around. And ugly men are only going to have success if they're famous, popular, or rich. That's the only advantage an ugly guy has over an ugly woman.

like I said before, just because the woman is asking the guys are not going to be any nicer or more accepting towards her like a 'free pass' simply b/c the woman is asking. so there's no point of them asking in the first place. they no choice except to 'wait around' and hope someone asks them.
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