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Old 08-04-2012, 09:24 AM
 
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Went to Lollapalooza all day yesterday, saw some amazing groups like Black Sabbath and The Black Keys, but being in the sun all day in 90 some degree weather along with drinking beer all day, left me in a rough shape by the time I was on my way home. While walking home from the festival, i met a girl, we talked for few minutes, had a make out session, iasked her to come back to my place, she declined, she asked me to come to wherever she was going, i declined, she gav eme her number and we split ways for the night. Not exactly proud to admit it, but i have no idea what this chicks name is or what she looks like in the least, but she's blowing me up this morning via text to set up a date. What would you do? I need to figure out both before i make any plans for a date, but want to omit the situation where we meet somehwere and i dont even know who im meeting? How can i figure out her name or what she looks like. Any ideas?
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:35 AM
 
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Ask her for her name and then find her on facebook.
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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I'd skip it but I can tell you are a lot younger than I am.

A date is a big deal to me so this is something I cannot relate to.

Drinking alcohol on a hot day is a very bad idea. You are lucky you didn't end up in a hospital.
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:45 AM
 
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LOL. how can u make out with someone without knowing how she looks? or did u make out on her lips below the belt? WTF is wrong with people? wow.
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:45 AM
 
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I'd skip it but I can tell you are a lot younger than I am.

A date is a big deal to me so this is something I cannot relate to.

Drinking alcohol on a hot day is a very bad idea. You are lucky you didn't end up in a hospital.
Yes, it is not the greatest of ideas. its pretty rare for me, but ish happens as they say. thanks
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:51 AM
 
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LOL. how can u make out with someone without knowing how she looks? or did u make out on her lips below the belt? WTF is wrong with people? wow.
I knew what she looked like last night, just not this morning. have you ever been drunk?
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:52 AM
 
Location: State of Being
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What about just being honest? Why not text her back and tell her - I was pretty wasted last night and until I saw your text this morning, I thought maybe I had dreamed you up.

See where the convo goes from there . . . and just admit . . . you don't remember her name. If she gets upset, end of that. If not, you can always try meeting up again and see where it takes you.

Most likely, if you meet up and have nothing in common, it will be easy enough to disconnect.
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:52 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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HA HA HA !!!!

That movie, "Shallow Hal" comes to mind - you have no idea, you can't remember - do you remember what she looked like ???

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:57 AM
 
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What about just being honest? Why not text her back and tell her - I was pretty wasted last night and until I saw your text this morning, I thought maybe I had dreamed you up.

See where the convo goes from there . . . and just admit . . . you don't remember her name. If she gets upset, end of that. If not, you can always try meeting up again and see where it takes you.

Most likely, if you meet up and have nothing in common, it will be easy enough to disconnect.
Yeah, maybe ill try that, but i think its a pretty crappy thing to say to a girl. I dont have high hopes, nor really care that much, im just kicking myself in the a$$ this morning for drinking too much yesterday and putting myself in this situation.
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Went to Lollapalooza all day yesterday, saw some amazing groups like Black Sabbath and The Black Keys, but being in the sun all day in 90 some degree weather along with drinking beer all day, left me in a rough shape by the time I was on my way home. While walking home from the festival, i met a girl, we talked for few minutes, had a make out session, iasked her to come back to my place, she declined, she asked me to come to wherever she was going, i declined, she gav eme her number and we split ways for the night. Not exactly proud to admit it, but i have no idea what this chicks name is or what she looks like in the least, but she's blowing me up this morning via text to set up a date. What would you do? I need to figure out both before i make any plans for a date, but want to omit the situation where we meet somehwere and i dont even know who im meeting? How can i figure out her name or what she looks like. Any ideas?
Honesty is the best policy - and do it quickly. Just say, "hey, was a little too messed up last night for my brain to hang on to your name, sorry about that".
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