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I have no problem with a guy straight up telling me he wants sex. Although i must admit its never happened before. No clue why? If I don't want to I would tell him no. It's all about being mature and respectful when having this convo. As a matter of fact "game" doesn't win me over. I like direct honesty. I give it back in return. If you're old enough to have sex, your old enough to be straightforward.
I have only had sex with one guy outside of having a commitment. I planned to make him my cut buddy. I straight up told him, I don't want to date you, you are not my type dating wise and I am not in the best position to date. However I find you highly attractive and seemingly responsible and fun. Can we have sex, no strings attached. Guy was a little sore that I told him he was not my dating type but he quickly sucked it up and realized he was an awesome guy just not for me. We had sex with no drama. We ended with no drama. Why can't you do the same?
But she says she has feelings for me. What should i do next in order to have sex with her? Should I just be more aggressive, because obviously she is attracted to me, she just won't date me.
Dating someone does not mean that you have to find a way to have sex with her!
She won`t date you because you are mean? If I knew that all you was after was to have sex with me, I wouldn`t date your a$$ either.
I have no problem with a guy straight up telling me he wants sex. Although i must admit its never happened before. No clue why? If I don't want to I would tell him no. It's all about being mature and respectful when having this convo. As a matter of fact "game" doesn't win me over. I like direct honesty. I give it back in return. If you're old enough to have sex, your old enough to be straightforward.
I have only had sex with one guy outside of having a commitment. I planned to make him my cut buddy. I straight up told him, I don't want to date you, you are not my type dating wise and I am not in the best position to date. However I find you highly attractive and seemingly responsible and fun. Can we have sex, no strings attached. Guy was a little sore that I told him he was not my dating type but he quickly sucked it up and realized he was an awesome guy just not for me. We had sex with no drama. We ended with no drama. Why can't you do the same?
What a shame this is mostly how people operate. Sounds no different then if you were making plans to get your car detailed. I don't get it.
Find another girl who will have sex with you without you having to plot around a NO to get some. Why in the world would you think that would end well? Obviously just an attraction is not enough for her, she prefers to have sex with people she thinks are sexy AND nice. That's not you. So to get it you have to deceive her. Find a chick who likes em mean.
You are the type of dude who wonders why his tires get slashed by his ex, complaining all women are crazy.
So unless you think she's mistaken about you being mean, leave her alone.
But she says she has feelings for me. What should i do next in order to have sex with her? Should I just be more aggressive, because obviously she is attracted to me, she just won't date me.
Look up the word "base" - It means the lowest most primitive part of the human being...the most base and animal instincts...You may be base. "What should I do next in order to have sex with her?"----You might consider investing in a heart- mind and kind personality...If I were a woman...I would do everything in my power not to be conquered by the likes of you. Everyone can be attracted to everyone on a "base" level..I don't believe she is attracted by you the person- maybe by you the penis...But I am sure that when she looks the rest of the package - her good judgement kicks in and says "no way" - Why go for a guy like you when there are less complications using a vibrator?
But she says she has feelings for me. What should i do next in order to have sex with her? Should I just be more aggressive, because obviously she is attracted to me, she just won't date me.
I suggest throwing her into a hole and forcing her to puts the lotion on it's skin until she succumbs to your charm.
Go to craigslist.org, Personals, then read Women Seeking Men.
Notice they do not say I want a guy to come over, have sex with me, then leave...
Rather they talk about doing things together, spending time together, and things "friends" do together - hang out and not have sex. They want someone to talk to, companionship, someone to do things with, go places with.
Next read Men seeking Women. Notice many of them are looking for sex, but a few have a clue and talk about doing things and having a relationship.
I suggest throwing her into a hole and forcing her to puts the lotion on it's skin until she succumbs to your charm.
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