Girl won't date me because I'm mean (call, partner, different)
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Yeah, that's what we need more of, honesty. Women's quality of life would improve so much if guys just went around propositioning them! A true mark of civilization. btw, this actually happens in Russia, and it doesn't go over well.
That is really bad advice. Looks like you want to drag everyone down to that base level. If someone said to you...That you are not their type but they would have sex with you, if they or you paid them for sex- Is that okay as long as there is "no drama"?
Wow. The lack of confidence and maturity shows in this forum. I would have no problem if a guy asked me that, as long as he was not disrespectful. Would I accept, hell no. I would laugh and tell him absolutely not. But why get mad or offended? I know who I am and people just don't shake my confidence.
Btw I highly doubt that would happen I just don't look like the type of girl that would accept such an invitation, nor do I carry myself that way.
Sometimes I wonder what some of you look like behind those computer screens and what the hell life is like for you. Such bitter, overly sensitive, easily offended people. Clearly lacking confidence.
Confidence is a beautiful thing--it really is. Maturity and straightforward talk with tack is too. Some of you should try it.
It seems that there is a misunderstanding from the rest of you posters. I don't want to date her, she does not think im bf material and i dont think it would be a good relationship. I would like to have sex with her. So what should I do next, make an attempt do nice things when I'm around her, or you know just wait for the moment to be agressive like kiss her when she lasts expects it.
You people don't understand women. A woman who likes you does not mean she necessarily wants to date you too. When a women says she likes/does not like you, find out why. If she likes you and uses the terminology nice/kind in any way to describe why she likes you, i would run away because that girl is not going to sleep with you. However if she likes you because you are funny, mysterious, strange, move forward. I have not once slept with a girl who thought I was nice.
Most women usually don't tell men that they don't like them, and they rarely give a reason. Women have been conditioned that way. Whenever you hear a women say you are mean or a dick, it's actually a good sign. My problem usually has been finishing the deal in situations like this. I know she wants to sleep with me, but I justo don't know how to proceed. If I start being nice, her interest in me will go down. If I chase or become aggressive I'll come across as desperate and pushy. Kind of like a lose lose situation. However I know there is a way so what should I do?
I know this is going to go in one ear and out the other - but I've never called someone a dick in a good way. And if I think someone is too mean to date - he's too mean to have any place in my life.
I know this is going to go in one ear and out the other - but I've never called someone a dick in a good way. And if I think someone is too mean to date - he's too mean to have any place in my life.
But she says she has feelings for me. What should i do next in order to have sex with her? Should I just be more aggressive, because obviously she is attracted to me, she just won't date me.
Keep being mean. Girls LOVE "bad boys." On here, the politically correct, sensitive ladies of CDF Relationships deny that. Out in the real world, it's REALITY.
It seems that there is a misunderstanding from the rest of you posters. I don't want to date her, she does not think im bf material and i dont think it would be a good relationship. I would like to have sex with her. So what should I do next, make an attempt do nice things when I'm around her, or you know just wait for the moment to be agressive like kiss her when she lasts expects it.
You people don't understand women. A woman who likes you does not mean she necessarily wants to date you too. When a women says she likes/does not like you, find out why. If she likes you and uses the terminology nice/kind in any way to describe why she likes you, i would run away because that girl is not going to sleep with you. However if she likes you because you are funny, mysterious, strange, move forward. I have not once slept with a girl who thought I was nice.
Most women usually don't tell men that they don't like them, and they rarely give a reason. Women have been conditioned that way. Whenever you hear a women say you are mean or a dick, it's actually a good sign. My problem usually has been finishing the deal in situations like this. I know she wants to sleep with me, but I justo don't know how to proceed. If I start being nice, her interest in me will go down. If I chase or become aggressive I'll come across as desperate and pushy. Kind of like a lose lose situation. However I know there is a way so what should I do?
Why would you start being nice? Next time you see her, flirt with her for 5 minutes, tell her you find her very attractive while checking her out and ask her if she wants to come to your place. If she says yes - great, if she says no - no big deal.
Wow. The lack of confidence and maturity shows in this forum. I would have no problem if a guy asked me that, as long as he was not disrespectful. Would I accept, hell no. I would laugh and tell him absolutely not. But why get mad or offended? I know who I am and people just don't shake my confidence.
Btw I highly doubt that would happen I just don't look like the type of girl that would accept such an invitation, nor do I carry myself that way.
Sometimes I wonder what some of you look like behind those computer screens and what the hell life is like for you. Such bitter, overly sensitive, easily offended people. Clearly lacking confidence.
Confidence is a beautiful thing--it really is. Maturity and straightforward talk with tack is too. Some of you should try it.
Behind the computer screen are real people...What they write is not always what they are...It's a creative thing. Some posters like to look at all angles of a topic...and you are going to get some mixed and colorful response. The bitter thing is not a bad thing- If a person is bitter there is a reason. That reason comes from experience..It's useful to show a bit of bitterness..others can learn from it...I laugh at my kid if he calls me a "hater" - I tell him "enough of that internet lingo"...
So what's the topic here? I forgot...better scroll up. Oh yes it's about the guy who does not give a damn about anyone other than himself and his release of sperm into a female body with no head or face...Is that bitter enough for you? lol.
I know this is going to go in one ear and out the other - but I've never called someone a dick in a good way. And if I think someone is too mean to date - he's too mean to have any place in my life.
Well, millions of women sleep with bad boys and jerks on regular basis, because they find them sexualy appealing, not to mention probabality of being more dominating in the bedroom. They dont like them as men or people and dont think of them as BF/husband material - but thats exactly why its so easy for these guys to get laid, and it doesnt stop women from giving it up. You may like it or hate it, but its reality.
Keep being mean. Girls LOVE "bad boys." On here, the politically correct, sensitive ladies of CDF Relationships deny that. Out in the real world, it's REALITY.
Low self esteem "goods" love bad boys. If that's what you write home about cool , everyone has different standards. Some folks only aim for A- in life. Nothing wrong with that.
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