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You have know idea. Maybe getting their windshields smashed in and clothes tossed out on the sidewalk and lit on fire will slap some sense into them.
Oh I do have an idea. Sometimes it takes alot for them to see the light, sometimes they never do. Its been my indirect experience that many of these women are bipolar and on various medications.
Zentropa the type of chicks you describe still have rights in society's eyes unless they pull a Britney Spears and lose custodianship of their lives.... Oftentimes they are functioning in some capacity and holding down jobs etc....
Everyone gets alittle crazy at times.
This thread sucks
I agree, they have rights and free will. My question is whether it is OK to pursue someone for sex who you know has questionable judgement because of emotional instability. It was intended to be a more subtle question than "would you bang a mentally retarded person."
Zentropa, you are backtracking and its pretty obvious. Read the title of your thread and the OP and admit to it. You are talking about women with actual mental disorders and illnese, being abused by men for sex. Thats a BS topic and a BS thread. I dont appreciate it in the least.
I refer to threads in which men extol the pleasures of sex with a "crazy" woman.
It's always immoral to exploit (sexually, or otherwise) an individual who is mentally or psychologically incapacitated to the degree that they are unable to make rational decisions. All US states have "vulnerable adult" statutes which also make it illegal.
In casual conversations, such as those on these forums, the term "crazy" is almost always used in reference to someone whose behavior is unorthodox, rude, rebellious, rash, violent, unexpected, (pick your adjective). These behaviors have more to do with general personality traits; than they do with clinical definitions of psychological diseases, mental illnesses, or mental capacities.
There have been several threads and posts on this board about how "crazy" girls are more desirable sex partners (although I have never seen any convincing explanation as to what they do that is demonstrably different than a mentally healthy woman with a decent sex drive).
That being said, I wonder how common it is for men to pursue women they understand in advance to be mentally or emotionally unstable for purely sexual purposes. Or men to stay in relationships with these women when there is no interest on his part other than sex.
Is this an OK thing to do, or is it a form of exploitation of psychologically impaired people?
Debate among yourselves.
Not nice at all leading someone on, And in many cases this comes back to bite the men real hard.
I agree, they have rights and free will. My question is whether it is OK to pursue someone for sex who you know has questionable judgement because of emotional instability. It was intended to be a more subtle question than "would you bang a mentally retarded person."
I think you're a bit strange... Well a lot...
Taking advantage of a Person with MR/DD is never right. And to ask if it's ok - Well... Why would anyone say - Yes to that answer?
Unless you truly love the person for what and who they are, Then NO it's truly and utterly wrong. Many do not know any better.
This is my line of work and I deal with MR/DD daily. They are people too and have feelings and emotions. And taking advantage of them, is wrong, wrong, wrong in all aspects...
So do some not consider very low self esteem an emotional impairment that can make women vulnerable? This is a great issue for debate.
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