I need to talk to her but I dont know what to say (date, boyfriend)
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2 years ago, I met this girl. She was 16 I was 20. It was hard for us to date without her parents getting mad so we went our separate ways.
She found another boyfriend, had a kid, and are still together to this day. They are always fighting, and seems like 3 days later they are back together.
Everytime I think about her, or a memory comes up, I realize I still have feelings for her. I feel like I need some kind of closure.
I feel like its effecting my life because everytime I meet a new girl, I think of her and what might have been, or what could possibly still be.
I think she might but not 100% she has some kind of feelings for me because the other month I texted her, and she wanted to hangout. Well by time the weekend came she was back with her boyfriend and we never got to hangout.
I can tell you, her boyfriend is a $$ hole from the way he treats her and the way he turned her on my friend whom introduced me and her. I just need to know what I should do, I need to talk to her but I dont know what to say.
Can you explain what is so compelling about this girl? It seems clear she makes very poor choices, has very little self esteem and carries major baggage. Is that why you find her so compelling? Are you planning to rescue her? What is the big attraction? Be honest with yourself please.
You know, there are a lot of strong, intelligent, self sufficient women your age who have their **** together. Why not get to know some of them? Leave this girl alone to focus on raising her child.
ok, now youre 22, she's 18, both still children, and she has a child. she's immature, and not ready for anything, you need to grow up, and grow on. You don't need to be with her, it will end in disaster. Let her go, live her life, and you need to get one.
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